"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl #1 has a bf but in progress of fighting
she told me about her sober story
i gave her some advice (bad choice!?!)
then i said "why are you with him then?" (lol)
we have a lot of things in common
she is in my everyday college class
how should i go about it?


Girl #2 has no bf but very hot and flirty
i am the "not her type"
the way she talks to me as always being polite
same in my everyday class
i want to sleep with her only
how should i approach this?

i fear of rejection because there are many girls that i know in that class
i am sure they will talk to each other about it and it may be bad for my reputation
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sexual

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Between #1 and #2 ... I say you make other options or buy some good porn. #1 is too much drama, #2 is out of your league. Be a jerk to her and see if you can knock her down a notch. Never fear rejection, and it doesn't make you look bad for being a guy. Look bad? C'mon, man.
 

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I second Sexual's motion, and would like to add that if you wanna go anywhere in your dating life and be hapyy with it, then you need to learn how to not care what other people think about you. It doesn't matter.

Also, you need to keep yourself from creating negative assumptions about what people are doing, thinking about what would they be doing. that doesn't matter at all. None of this "I bet they're talkin' behind my back about me" stuff.

Well, the thing is buddy, regardless of these two chicks, you've got deeper issues that you need to get in touch with and solve. I can already see it coming that you're probably not gonna end up with either of them. If you take any piece of advice away from this website, it should be do not mess with women that have boyfriends. DO NOT DO IT. Why do you even want to involve yourself in that drama? You are actually stooping to the level of trying to manipulate her to dump this other guy (and possibly piss of one bad mother of a dude in the process) so you can "date" her with the eventual goal of doin some hardcore bump n' grind. You can try to deny it, but that is truly what is taking place in the situation with #1. Girls that already have boyfriends cause drama, Don Juans don't put up with drama like that.

With Girls #2, You've already failed because you already don't believe you can get her. Even besides the fact that you don't believe you can, you are already thinking about the end game of getting her pants off. You haven't even gone on a date with her, yet you already know you don't wanna have a relationship with this girl at all? There are alot of things wrong with this situation here that I'm to sleepy to go in to.

Gimme a break, it's 2:15 in the morning here.

Seriously though dude, you need to get your inner game in check before your outer game even begins to make any sort of difference. You should read the Book of Pook. It's on the internet, just goggle that sh*t. Read through the ENTIRE THING. don't make any excuses about this man. You need to do this for yourself. It wil open up your mind to whole new possibilities my friend. If you get you inner game in check, everything else falls in to place. I mean if you don't know how to ride a motorcyle, are you just gonna hop on a super bike and try to ride that motherf***er off a ramp? You're gonna fail badly. Same thing goes with learning how to get women. When you don't really know how to get it done, then how do you expect to be able to get any girl? And learning how to get it done comes from getting your inner game solved first. trust me on this one buddy. It will change your whole f***in' life
 

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Harmless420 said:
how about give me some actual advice instead of common sense :down:
The fact that this your reply shows even more that you have no idea what's going on dude. Here I am trying to get you to make a positive change in your life and you couldn't recognize it if it kicked you in your d*ck.

The Bottom Line is GET YOUR F*CKING INNER GAME HANDLED. Of course it's common sense but that doesn't make a difference at all if you still don't do it. Forget about the stupid girls, you need to get real with yourself man.

and don't be a d*ck to people that are trying to help you out. that's not cool. you're just gonna alienate people like that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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here you go again, giving me the common sense bull****

i bet you're just one of these virgins who made up fake stories to impress other nerds on this forum
 

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Dude... do you even want help?

What the hell are you doing here? You come for advice; when you get the advice you just spit on it and the person who offers it to you.

I hope nobody ever helps you until you get your attitude fixed. It's not like you'd perceive any of it as help anyway.
 

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Harmless420 said:
here you go again, giving me the common sense bull****

i bet you're just one of these virgins who made up fake stories to impress other nerds on this forum
Bahahahahahahaahaaha

oh wow. You are just too much. It's too bad for you friend. You're never going to get this area of your life handled. When you're 50 years old with no kids and no lady, sad and depressed, just remember that you could've had so much more. Good luck on your sad depressing life.
 

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Wow. Nerd? :trouble:
Get a life. I usually don't even get good responses or criticism anymore because the only few MDJ's that can help are out in the world living life and not spending their time on the message board. You're being ignorant and ungrateful. You're going nowhere fast.

Maybe you understand old Japanese advice.

Confucious say, "It is good for girl to meet boy in park, but better for boy to park meat in girl."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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