Need some serious help!!!

[NoMoreAFC]

I'm having some problems at sexual level. i hope to talk with you guys here because i think this is an open forum where people respect and understand each other's problems. Well the problem is i'm dating this girl,i'm 20 and she's 19, i like her and she turns me on a lot both physical and pshycological, but she can't make me come. it's the 3rd time this happens and i don't know if i should see a doctor or something, i don't know if it's a physical problem but when i masturbate well there's no problem so in theory i should be ok. she tells me i'm too tense and i can't concentrate as hard as i try. if somebody here has experienced something similar please help. this is not a joke and really is an annoying problem.

thanks in advance

 

[dearsappho]

Stop wanking

 

[NoMoreAFC]

ok but i don't think that explains why this is happening

 

[O Snap]

your hand basically desensitizes your penis when you masturbate. Quit masturbating for a while, and you should be fine

 

[spidersense]

Originally posted by dearsappho
Stop wanking

this should work, but if not, then try some meditations, I know that for a while I had sooo much BS on my mind that I couldn't stay up in bed and I couldn't .... unload... So, try to obtain some level of serenity. Also, never never never eversay to yourself, I'm not going to be able to.... unload... and if you udo think that, respond to yourself with, "WTF? I'm not going to be able to come, yeah right, whatever..."

 

[disciple]

You should cut down on the wanking.

When you do wank off, use lighter pressure from your hand and be very gentle and go slower so your d*ck gets used to busting off from gentler and softer stimulation.

Also, it sounds like you may be trying a little too hard when your with her.

Don't focus so much on busting off or on f*cking her right.

Instead, focus on the small details of the experience like the smell or touch of her hair and body, the sexy look in her eyes, or how soft and warm her neck feels when you kiss it.

See what I'm saying?

When you focus on the details you enjoy the experience more and you become more relaxed and your imagination gets stimulated and your imagination is the greatest aphrodisiac you'll ever have.

 

[NewMan]

Take a chill pill...

You need to stop focusing on the end result so much...

Enjoy the process of fvcking - the end result will take care fo itself.


This happenes to me when I'm with a new girl.

It take me some time to adjust to the new chick....

It's only happened 3 times. Relax, take care of your girl and it will happen. Your just worrying about sh#t to much.

 

[steveoo5]

it was the same way with my girl at first, i thought her pvssy was just too loose for my penis, so i tried other positions, try to find a position that stimulates your penis the way you want it to be stimulated, my favorite is her lying face down with legs staight, and put it in from top/behind, then i can have complete control over the speed and movements(she likes to get too wild sometimes) and the best way to *** is by making her *** first, when she cums, her pvssy will tightin and retract causing much plesure to my penis, which causes me to ***