Hi fellow DJs, I just found this amazing website few days ago. Im 18yearsold now and I never have a girlfriend as I often failed to notice hints/signs that the girls I like had been given to me for the past few years so their interest waned and I ended up getting friendzoned. I have been reading a lot of threads and tips these few days and boy I was freaking amazed. I couldnt help but wondering what my life could have been if I have known this website few years ago. What has passed is past so I dont think I gonna feel regret about it but now I am facing a major problem with this girl that I really want her to be my first girlfriend ever. I have a feeling, no, certainty that my problems that I am facing now can be solved if I share my story with you all and ask for some tips/help.
Alright here it goes
I have known June for approximately a year now. For the first three months June and I have very very great interest in each other and we have been texting a lot. We have gone for a few dates but due to my lack of experience I didnt do anything physical like touching, kissing or hugging to her. However, around the middle of the year someone very dear to me passed away and I got really depressed so I did not talk to her as much as we used to and slowly we didnt talk at all. I have moved on and I guess she did too so we became sort of like hi-bye friends.
We began talking to each other but not as much as we used to around September to November. We spent more time hanging out together as we helped each other to prepare to the quizzes and exams. I realized I have liked her again but I decided to remain as friends. Then, she met a guy when she went clubbing and I decided to back off and did something like the no contact challenge for almost a month. We did not talk or see each other at all for the whole December and the beginning of January
However in the mid-January, much to my surprise I saw her in her friend's car who stopped just beside me while I was stuck in a jam. We rolled the window down and talked to each other for awhile before they headed into another direction. We agreed to have dinner ( with other friends of course ) to catch up. From that day onwards we have been going out for lunch, dinner or supper ( sometimes its just the two of us and sometimes with a third wheel ) I didnt do anything physical to her when we are having some alone time ( when I drop her off at her house ), which I really regret now after I found this website lol. I cant stop thinking bout her atm and havent been contacting her for the past 2 days after our lunch during her one hour working break. From what I know about her, she isnt the type who would initiate a conversation using text. Oh and fyi she doesnt text as much as she did last time.
So there are a few questions I would like to ask
1) Is she still interested in me ( I dont really know about this since she wouldnt mind spending some alone time with me, initiating a conversation with me when we are out eating )
2) Should I do something physical to her on our next date? ( Im thinking bout hugging lol )
3) Should I apply the knowledge/techniques that I have learned from this website since she might find it quite fishy for me to do all these kind of stuff suddenly after knowing me for a year
4) Should I just take a gamble and tell her I like her. If she likes me then it's wonderful and if she doesnt then I guess I just have to NEXT her and start being a DonJuan.
5) Should I continue the No Contact knowing I have disappointed her before and she isnt really the type of person who would initiate a conversation?
I really dont wanna screw this up as i did with the last few girls. I really like this girl and I really wanna make her mine :X
so any tips or advices? :X
Alright here it goes
I have known June for approximately a year now. For the first three months June and I have very very great interest in each other and we have been texting a lot. We have gone for a few dates but due to my lack of experience I didnt do anything physical like touching, kissing or hugging to her. However, around the middle of the year someone very dear to me passed away and I got really depressed so I did not talk to her as much as we used to and slowly we didnt talk at all. I have moved on and I guess she did too so we became sort of like hi-bye friends.
We began talking to each other but not as much as we used to around September to November. We spent more time hanging out together as we helped each other to prepare to the quizzes and exams. I realized I have liked her again but I decided to remain as friends. Then, she met a guy when she went clubbing and I decided to back off and did something like the no contact challenge for almost a month. We did not talk or see each other at all for the whole December and the beginning of January
However in the mid-January, much to my surprise I saw her in her friend's car who stopped just beside me while I was stuck in a jam. We rolled the window down and talked to each other for awhile before they headed into another direction. We agreed to have dinner ( with other friends of course ) to catch up. From that day onwards we have been going out for lunch, dinner or supper ( sometimes its just the two of us and sometimes with a third wheel ) I didnt do anything physical to her when we are having some alone time ( when I drop her off at her house ), which I really regret now after I found this website lol. I cant stop thinking bout her atm and havent been contacting her for the past 2 days after our lunch during her one hour working break. From what I know about her, she isnt the type who would initiate a conversation using text. Oh and fyi she doesnt text as much as she did last time.
So there are a few questions I would like to ask
1) Is she still interested in me ( I dont really know about this since she wouldnt mind spending some alone time with me, initiating a conversation with me when we are out eating )
2) Should I do something physical to her on our next date? ( Im thinking bout hugging lol )
3) Should I apply the knowledge/techniques that I have learned from this website since she might find it quite fishy for me to do all these kind of stuff suddenly after knowing me for a year
4) Should I just take a gamble and tell her I like her. If she likes me then it's wonderful and if she doesnt then I guess I just have to NEXT her and start being a DonJuan.
5) Should I continue the No Contact knowing I have disappointed her before and she isnt really the type of person who would initiate a conversation?
I really dont wanna screw this up as i did with the last few girls. I really like this girl and I really wanna make her mine :X
so any tips or advices? :X
