"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need some serious help I would greatly appreciate need advice.

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Okay it has to do with this girl im with that I am trying to get with.


Basically things were fine like I mentioned. Thought, we hungout a few weekends ago and she complained about wanting me to take her to a nice place sometime and she complained that iIused coupons for dinner and wanted me to get her flowers etc... I just whatever'd it and the last week before she left town we went to raw it was fine. Then we were supposed to go mobb deep show and i went to her place and she was like youd be mad if i didnt go I am tired and i said "no" shes like "thanks for understanding." and the last night before she left town was supposed to come over and she ignored me till almost midnight. Said, I went drinking and i feel sick and im staying home and so i stayed at her place. That night was fine but like i said she ignored me and didnt reply till then. And the day she left we hungout we had sex but like I said right when I was kissing her she just took her clothes off right there and went in the bed etc wasnt feeling much like I would want to you know? Was weird. Well I dont hear from her I just say miss ya hows your trip been and just replies thats it. I checked her profile on pof and she updated it with new pictures and or whatever saying lets get off this website lol. So I need help here because I am having these feelings of anger and upset over this because I spend time and money on this girl and I want her to be with me and she basically is you know changing her profile and not giving me attention like wanting to be me with me. How do I fix this have her want me etc...? I dont know if I should basically talk to her about it saying I dont want to be more than **** buddies unless we are together or give ultimatum or something along those lines. Best advice would be appreciated, thank you. I dont feel like I want to do ANYTHING more than be a **** with her unless we are a couple you know???? Please HELP. Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If she's updating her POF profile, it's clear she wants to bang other dudes.
Don't confront her, don't give her an ultimatum, just keep fvcking her until she doesn't want to anymore or wants to be exclusive with you.
You're investing way too much into a girl who doesn't deserve it. Spin plates, don't be so desperate and chill out.
And make sure you use a condom. Who knows what the fvck she's caught if she's banging multiple men. Protect yourself at all times!
 
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Dump her


Basically things were fine like I mentioned. Thought, we hungout a few weekends ago and she complained about wanting me to take her to a nice place sometime and she complained that iIused coupons for dinner and wanted me to get her flowers etc... I ju
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TWO HUGE RED FLAGS.
 
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shes clean girl she makes good money lives good neighborhood good job shes decent to me it just hasnt been great lately. How do I fix this be more fun or interesting have her be interested in me more and want me because I DO NOT feel like that is going to happen anytime soon!???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There's nothing that you can do right now that will increase her interest.

Like other posters have already said, your investing WAY to much. Keep up this way and you're on an express trip to oneitisville. A very dark place.

Stop hanging out with her so much and lower the attention you're giving her, then maybe her IL will get a little kick.

But to be honest, the way you described her, she sounds like a d1ckhead with +20 strength.

Your best bet would be to tell her to kick rocks and level up by discovering a female in the lost lands who actually DOES want to be exclusive with you & isn't fvcking the friendly neighborhood on POF.

Your choice though. Goodluck man.
 
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yeah well i have been looking and i havent invested much in past 2 weeks really we just went to raw in thats it all the women on their are mostly unattractive ugly or wont talk to me. Im not giving her much attention lately I just texted her once and that is it. Are you sure that I shouldnt try to plan random fun events besides her just coming over sleeping with me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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