Need some sense of direction advice

[MiGuelS]

Heres the deal i'm in Community college right now so its not like i'm living the college experience last semester the only people i hung out with were people who were still in the area/ friends back from high school. I'm bored most of the time and i'm in my house all day long most of the time. right now the only thing i do is lift 3x a week, and eat all day. once school starts up again its going to be the same routine get up, go to school, come back home, go on computer/watch tv/ do hw/ go lift...rinse and repeat. so besides lifting, going to school, i decided this upcoming semester sometime i will be getting a job to keep busy but other then that i dont' know what else to do to keep busy while meeting new people.... aren't many clubs to join at the community college, kind of thought of traning to be a bartender since is a more social atomosphere
socially as you can see things aren't going anywhere i think most of my life i've just been in neutral never did any drugs in high school, never got invited to parties.....(who ur friends with really helps out in HS) only thing i do is Drink (i really like liquor) but i've wanted to try weed jus becuase i wanted to form my own opinion about it and because its a real social thing around here and because 90% of my friends do it still, i feel like i'm missing out opportunitys chillin with people. but i really want a security clearance and as you all know or if you don't they always polygraph you and check on your past.

IDK what are your guys opinions of what to do on improving myself and meeting new people

so far i'm making myself better looking by lifting
i have a better wardrobe
got rid of my acne just have some redmarks but those are fading actually pretty good these last few weeks.

 

[Jay Jay]

I'd say keep training. Get that job in a bar. Approach people who seem interesting...

As for the weed issue. I've smoked a decent sized forest of the **** over the years. Now while appreciate your desire to form your own opinion its not like you are missing out on anything super special if you don't have a smoke.

In fact from what I've seen the people who really like it would have been better off never having had it in the first place...

If you wanna bust into the stoner circle could I suggest that rather than getting stoned you cook up some nice chocolate chip cookies and take em round. They will love you forever.

JJ

 

[Falcon]

Going to get a job and lifting is good. keep it up. Usually, when i feel like I have no sense of direction in life, it's because I am not doing something I love. What are you passionate about (women doesn't count as an answer)? Is it congruent with what you are studying or will be studying in college? You complain about everything becoming a routine. Trust me, it will get worse when you are not doing something you love. When you do something you love, work will seem like play.