"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's up..DJ,
I have been w/ this girl for 2 years and everything has been wonderful...I have followed the Doc Love program to the T....The 60 days of challenge and the romance and affection after you got her hooked...I have a question related to self-control and jealousy...I know you said that it is a 100%..Don't do it...My girl treats me like a king..Matterfact, the other day she gave me a card w/ a baby boy on the front..Telling me how she really wants to marry me and this is what our kid will look like..and she also put a little money in it for me...She does stuff like this for me all the time...She even paid for my plane ticket to go see her parents this Christmas...My question is every month she has to go out of town for 2 days for this class...and she tells me about this dude in her class who is real cool and how they went out to dinner...She says finally she met someone who isn't a total ******* in her program because everyone in her program is arrogant...I played it cool..She tells me how she showed my picture to him and told him how we met..and he talked about his girlfriend...I told her thats great but inside I'm thinking is this dude trying to push up on my girl....Her actions show that she loves me but am I overanalyzing the situation...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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-HPNOTIQ-

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Give us your age..her age..any other statistical stuff.
 

DeathDealer

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She's trying to make you jealous to get a reaction out of you and getting a kick out of the other guy trying to get in her pants.

The good: She's telling you what's up.
The bad: The guy that is trying to move in.
 

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
She's trying to make you jealous to get a reaction out of you and getting a kick out of the other guy trying to get in her pants.

The good: She's telling you what's up.
The bad: The guy that is trying to move in.


Death is right. You need to make sure you don't crumble at this point. Totally testing you.
 
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