Mack Action Hero
Don Juan
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- Dec 30, 2003
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Interesting situation, this very cute girl moved up here from the south (go figure), and I've been busy most of the summer but finally got to meet her a few weeks back.
I set out to just be friends with her cause I'm from the south as well and it'd be nice to have someone up here to complain about the cold weather with, but after actually meeting and hanging out with her, I realized that she has a rockin' personality and she really is damn hot.
She finally drops that she has a BF in a conversation, but admits that they are very on again off again and doesn't expect it to last much longer.. especially now that they live nowhere near each other. She also knows that I have a GF, but she knows that my relationship is going the same sorta way as hers.
Now we've hung out on like 4 occasions, and I've noticed that her interest level is freaky high and even keeps getting higher every time I see her (she insists on paying, compliments me, offers to help me buy milk at the store??, does all the play fight/tickling crap, carefully tests the hand-holding waters while we're watching a movie... hell, she was honking my chest one time and i honked her right back, and she seemed very ok with it.)
So now we're both stuck. I need to get out of my relationship and I know that she's a better option, and I'm pretty positive that she's realized that I'm a better man than her BF... but we're both being timid and sketchy about it cause we each know the other still has a bf/gf.
Now how the dumping hell do I escalate our relationship before I wait too long and land in the friendship zone?? Do I surprise her with a kiss or go for a goodbye kiss, both of which could end up VERY awkward ("sorry mack hero.. i do still have a bf"), or should I work with the playful boob grabbing path that she started to put me on and the next time she invites the opportunity, just plain feel her up? If I start feeling her up or something in a situation like that, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't stop me, but damn if I don't feel awkard just randomly doing that to a girl that I haven't crossed the intimate kissing line with.
Oh, and minor note: she's leaving for college in a few weeks and going someplace a few states away, although may end up transferring someplace closer to me and her new home like spring or next year. If I want to keep her as a LTR option for the future, should I hold off on going for any more with her right now, knowing that we might have a couple weeks of fun and then I probably wouldn't see her until like Thanksgiving... or would waiting any longer to make a move slam me in the dreaded F-Zone?
I set out to just be friends with her cause I'm from the south as well and it'd be nice to have someone up here to complain about the cold weather with, but after actually meeting and hanging out with her, I realized that she has a rockin' personality and she really is damn hot.
She finally drops that she has a BF in a conversation, but admits that they are very on again off again and doesn't expect it to last much longer.. especially now that they live nowhere near each other. She also knows that I have a GF, but she knows that my relationship is going the same sorta way as hers.
Now we've hung out on like 4 occasions, and I've noticed that her interest level is freaky high and even keeps getting higher every time I see her (she insists on paying, compliments me, offers to help me buy milk at the store??, does all the play fight/tickling crap, carefully tests the hand-holding waters while we're watching a movie... hell, she was honking my chest one time and i honked her right back, and she seemed very ok with it.)
So now we're both stuck. I need to get out of my relationship and I know that she's a better option, and I'm pretty positive that she's realized that I'm a better man than her BF... but we're both being timid and sketchy about it cause we each know the other still has a bf/gf.
Now how the dumping hell do I escalate our relationship before I wait too long and land in the friendship zone?? Do I surprise her with a kiss or go for a goodbye kiss, both of which could end up VERY awkward ("sorry mack hero.. i do still have a bf"), or should I work with the playful boob grabbing path that she started to put me on and the next time she invites the opportunity, just plain feel her up? If I start feeling her up or something in a situation like that, I'm pretty sure she wouldn't stop me, but damn if I don't feel awkard just randomly doing that to a girl that I haven't crossed the intimate kissing line with.
Oh, and minor note: she's leaving for college in a few weeks and going someplace a few states away, although may end up transferring someplace closer to me and her new home like spring or next year. If I want to keep her as a LTR option for the future, should I hold off on going for any more with her right now, knowing that we might have a couple weeks of fun and then I probably wouldn't see her until like Thanksgiving... or would waiting any longer to make a move slam me in the dreaded F-Zone?
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