So this girl that I'm talking to hit me up 2 days ago trying to bang and then last night texted me that I'd better meet her at bar to which I said I was busy and hit her up later that night. I hit her up at 2am and got no response. In the morning she apologized saying she was asleep. Anyway she was looking to bang both nights. When should I try to meet up with her next would tn be to soon or should I push it to tm. What would u guys do?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
need some quick advice
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
I think I should be asking you for advice.
Within a week her cycle will drop off. Do it before then or wait three weeks.
Within a week her cycle will drop off. Do it before then or wait three weeks.
gravityeyelids
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Hmm it kind of depends on the circumstance...how you met her, etc.
It was good that you said you were busy, but since you hit her up at 2am, it probably makes you look too available to hit her up the very next night.
However, as Albatross is suggesting...this might be a case where you need to strike while the iron is hot. I'm assuming she has super high interest level, but i doubt she would hit you up three times in a row.
There's two courses of action here:
1) Just go silent either until she initiates contact again OR until it's been like a week or whatever
2) Go direct, hit her up tonight or tomorrow and high risk/high reward style, go for the bang. This girl prob isn't someone you'd wanna date anyway, so it's not like you're losing much if you scare her off.
I think both options are reasonable. Sounds like your [text] game is pretty solid, so just do what ya feel
It was good that you said you were busy, but since you hit her up at 2am, it probably makes you look too available to hit her up the very next night.
However, as Albatross is suggesting...this might be a case where you need to strike while the iron is hot. I'm assuming she has super high interest level, but i doubt she would hit you up three times in a row.
There's two courses of action here:
1) Just go silent either until she initiates contact again OR until it's been like a week or whatever
2) Go direct, hit her up tonight or tomorrow and high risk/high reward style, go for the bang. This girl prob isn't someone you'd wanna date anyway, so it's not like you're losing much if you scare her off.
I think both options are reasonable. Sounds like your [text] game is pretty solid, so just do what ya feel
Valentino14
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She isn't going to bang when it's on her terms.
Don't be like a little kid running for the candy.
She wants to bang, just set it up when it's good for you.
If you're needy for her candy she is going to close it off.
Don't be like a little kid running for the candy.
She wants to bang, just set it up when it's good for you.
If you're needy for her candy she is going to close it off.
Tictac
Banned
2:00 AM?
Oh well.
Oh well.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/strike_while_the_iron_is_hot
strike while the iron is hot: To act on an opportunity promptly while favorable conditions exist
strike while the iron is hot: To act on an opportunity promptly while favorable conditions exist