"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need some quick advice - How does a man handle this?

onthepath

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i'm a college student
andi've come a long way from the supplicating nice guy

however, i am quite intelligent, and still enjoy helping those around me with their work. one thing that has changed though is that i do'nt use my intelligence as a way to meet women in social situations :rolleyes: i used to hve many study dates ffs that ended up going nowhere

anyway, my dilemma is that i have a friend, who is very good looking but taller than me and flat chested, which completley rules her out. however, i do believe she con provide me access to her friends ;)

now, the only problem is she doesn't talk to me except when we're in the one class we have together, and then out of the blue she messages me re: an upcoming assignment we have. now the old me would of course try to arrange a lunch and then study thing, where i show her my entire assignment, and then make it better for her, while giving her the better copy :rolleyes:

what should i do? i want to send her the message that i'm not a walkover or a pansy, and hence increase my value on her eyes
maybe then she'll intro me to her friends

:D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by onthepath
i'm a college student
andi've come a long way from the supplicating nice guy

however, i am quite intelligent, and still enjoy helping those around me with their work. one thing that has changed though is that i do'nt use my intelligence as a way to meet women in social situations :rolleyes: i used to hve many study dates ffs that ended up going nowhere

anyway, my dilemma is that i have a friend, who is very good looking but taller than me and flat chested, which completley rules her out. however, i do believe she con provide me access to her friends ;)

now, the only problem is she doesn't talk to me except when we're in the one class we have together, and then out of the blue she messages me re: an upcoming assignment we have. now the old me would of course try to arrange a lunch and then study thing, where i show her my entire assignment, and then make it better for her, while giving her the better copy :rolleyes:

what should i do? i want to send her the message that i'm not a walkover or a pansy, and hence increase my value on her eyes
maybe then she'll intro me to her friends

:D
In her e-mail is she basically asking that you do it for her and let her copy off you or what?
 

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nope
this girl is a little less biatchy than those i've previously dealt with

she's basically asking if i've done it yet

i'm guesing it's the precursor to "help me with it"
 

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The only way to meet her friends if you guys go out as a group or something .. maybe she'll invite you out somewhere .. or let her know you are single and maybe she'll introduce you to someone.

Tell her to make sure your friends know that you are not the proverbial nice guy but instead take from people without giving back and eat little children .. lol. This should get you on the bad-boy side of things and then your phone won't stop ringing!
 

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I'm not sure if I can help you with this. I normally ignore girls who try to pull this sh1t on me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A Street Pimp's Perspective :

i have a friend

ok

the only problem is she doesn't talk to me except when we're in the one class we have together

how is she your FRIEND ?

when she doesn't talk to you outside your one class

and then out of the blue she messages me re: an upcoming assignment we have

to use you as a study partner / study buddy

how is she your friend ?

where i show her my entire assignment, and then make it better for her, while giving her the better copy

that would turn her off you

very very AFC

i want to send her the message that i'm not a walkover or a pansy

you show her your entire assignment then make it better for her

kiss her ass and not look like a pansy

not possible

maybe then she'll intro me to her friends

you would have to be friends first for her to do that

YOU ARE NOT FRIENDS

other than that if you could get some time outside like a club or whatever when she is WITH HER FRIENDS you could meet them like that without asking her

but you are trying to count your chickens way before they hatch in this entire situation


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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Originally posted by Lost In Translation
A Street Pimp's Perspective :

i have a friend

ok

the only problem is she doesn't talk to me except when we're in the one class we have together

how is she your FRIEND ?

when she doesn't talk to you outside your one class

and then out of the blue she messages me re: an upcoming assignment we have

to use you as a study partner / study buddy

how is she your friend ?

where i show her my entire assignment, and then make it better for her, while giving her the better copy

that would turn her off you

very very AFC

i want to send her the message that i'm not a walkover or a pansy

you show her your entire assignment then make it better for her

kiss her ass and not look like a pansy

not possible

maybe then she'll intro me to her friends

you would have to be friends first for her to do that

YOU ARE NOT FRIENDS

other than that if you could get some time outside like a club or whatever when she is WITH HER FRIENDS you could meet them like that without asking her

but you are trying to count your chickens way before they hatch in this entire situation


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
thanks for the wake up call
i may help her a little bit, but only after some niceness from her side

cheers
 

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Just tell her that you ain't givng her sh1t and that she needs to find another sucker to leech off of and then keep it moving. This works all the time man trust me I used it a grip when I was in school.
 
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Very well done DJ Lost in Translation

Dj on the path - I yhink she is usong you as the "pansy" and not the other way around - she is using you!

Ask her friends out yourself - get a larger social group - go out with some male friends and meet chicks/
 

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Quote - PuertoRican_Lover
Very well done DJ Lost in Teanskation

teen skate park ?

train station ?

are you drunk PRL ?


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OH MY GOD. Are you asking for advice on how to be FRIENDS with someone.? Meet up ith her somewhere, show her the sh*t and talk to her?

Jesus.
 
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Oops, I butchered your name - I'll correct it for the record
 

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PRL i quoted what you typed.

scroll up and read how you spelt my name in your post.

Lost in Teanskation


i think you did it on purpose to stir me up

my second theory is that you are drunk


what say you PuertoRican_cLover ?


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PR_L's first rule of women - "They only get bigger!!!!!" Most women are lazy and hate to put forth effort and exercise - RUN!!!
 

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ok now you went back and edited your posts my posts look silly

you could have just explained that you are not on crack and the cat jumped on the keyboard and then left the spelling as it was so everyone could see it

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A real man doesn't own a cat!!:D

I was typing with a beer in one hand - how did you know? Do you have a remote camera in my house?

You quoted me so the error is still recognized - don't fret.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yes i have a remote camera in your house

but in the words of PRL " don't fret " :D

and the cat comment was a cheap shot at you ;)



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Are you mocking me?

Lost, you are from Australia??? .

They have Pimps there too?

I thought you were an American based on your ho knowledge.
 

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PuertoRican_Lover

Are you mocking me?

never :D

Lost, you are from Australia???

yes. pimpin' down under.

They have Pimps there too?

last time i looked in the mirror ;)

we didn't need pimps till American feminist propaganda poisoned the minds of our women and made them believe they are Paris Hilton wh0res

and where ever there are wh0res see below

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “

I thought you were an American based on your ho knowledge

for someone as observant as you PRL you are asking me some tricky questions today ( must be the beers )

it has said location Australia for over 12 months now and as always my sig reads

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

this coming from a guy who once noticed i quoted you in my sig in 4th place instead of 3rd place LMAO !!!

YOU ARE AN EAGLE EYE SCOUT

must beer the beer goggles :p


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
PR_L's first rule of women - "They only get bigger!!!!!" Most women are lazy and hate to put forth effort and exercise - RUN!!!
 
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Yes, I do recall your "Australian Pimp" sig in the last year's time but I have noticed your comments more lately because you have been on the mark in your analysis of the hor scenarios!

Keep up the good work!!!

This is a compliment coming from the "Say 'No' to ho king!!!
 

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you have been on the mark in your analysis of the hor scenarios

yeah i went out and bought a metal detector and customised the end with bits of cosmo , cleo and girlfriend magazine and a sex and the city dvd so now it detects wh0res :)

Keep up the good work

Thankyou :D

This is a compliment coming from the "Say 'No' to ho king

yes i am looking forward to when you start selling tee-shirts with your rhymes ( raps ? )

like SAY NO TO CRACK H0ES

SAY NO TO MARRIED H0ES

SAY NO TO DISRESPECTFUL H0ES

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “

and my politically correct favourite tee-shirt to wear past womens lib protests

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
PR_L's first rule of women - "They only get bigger!!!!!" Most women are lazy and hate to put forth effort and exercise - RUN!!!

then all the womens lib nuts read the team shirt and RUN

AFTER ME trying to kill me

and in effect they get a great workout in their RUN

so the shirt actually creates a polar opposite effect



Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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