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Need some quick advice - girl at the store

909pua

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Well i see this girl at the store. First time saw her, i was checking her out. And likewise, she really didnt show any hint that she was interested.

1 week later, i finally see her again, this time it was an isolated incident (no customers at the store, just me and her) and to this day, i will bang my head on the wall 1000 times for not trying to get her info. Saw her again, this time she seemed interested, alot of eye contact, she even went out of her work area to talk to me over the counter. She managed to give me her work schedule so i can visit her.

1 week later again, in the morning, too many customers, couldn't even talk to her that long. This time, she showed no sign of interest.

Saw her again a few days later, which is today, same thing, no sign of interest but she did give me some eye contact. Too many customers on the floor

This girl hardly knows any english.. but dang she is fine.

What should I do? should I visit her again and this time try to close?
 

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She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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try again go the same day and time there were minimal amount of customers if you haven't done so. or if it's crowded try to pretend you need assistance for an item down an aisle. something like that where it will isolate her from others and she won't feel too uncomfortable. if there are a few people around nevermind them. you probably won't see them again. ask for her phone number.
 

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909pua said:
Saw her again, this time she seemed interested, alot of eye contact, she even went out of her work area to talk to me over the counter. She managed to give me her work schedule so i can visit her.
What do you mean by the bold part? Did she invite you to visit her? Like: "Here's my schedule, so you can come visit me"??? or did you ask for her schedule yourself and decided to drop by on the days she is there yourself?

Anyway... If she literally invited you, then she's just waiting for you to make a move now. Ask her number!

If she didn't literally ask you to visit her... Well, I'd still advice you to make a move and ask her number. You coming to the store time and again, trying to do something but really doing nothing...you can only get away with that for so long.

Imagine you find a nice girl sitting at the bar. You go over and order a drink, giving you an excuse to stand next to her. While you wait for the drink, you say hi and ask her if she's having a good time, blah blah. You get your drink and walk over to your friends again. Now how many times could you do the exact same thing in one night before she thinks you're a wussy who doesn't have the balls to make a move? Are you gonna keep walking back and forth between your friends and the bar all night long, keep ordering drinks to "coincidentally" be close to her and have a little chit chat??

Of course that situation would be a bit more obvious, but you're doing basically the same thing now. You go out to that store, try to make eye contact, try to have a little chit chat, then go home again. How many times have you done this now? two? three? I can't properly judge the situation coz I've never been there with you, but I bet it's already obvious to this girl that you are interested in her and that your visits to the store are not just a coincidence. Just like it would be obvious to the girl in the bar when you'd go over there several times.

If you don't make a move quickly, you'll look weak and she'll lose interest... Fvck whether it's crowded in there or she's busy. How much time does it really take to get someone's number? It just takes two sentences, one where you ask for it and one where she gives it to you.

FORTUNE FAVORS THE BOLD, my man. Get her number!
 
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