"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need some Online dating picture consulting please

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Trainwreck

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What pictures do I need to put on apps like Tinder to get me noticed? I am about 6ft, workout regularly, I'm in the middle of a cutting phase, so I'm in between 12%-16% body fat right now, so no abs :( I work in finance for a fortune 10 company. My tangibles include some 300 dollar oakleys, new roush striped mustang, roommate's dog lol, and I have travel pictures.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Trainwreck said:
What pictures do I need to put on apps like Tinder to get me noticed? I am about 6ft, workout regularly, I'm in the middle of a cutting phase, so I'm in between 12%-16% body fat right now, so no abs :( I work in finance for a fortune 10 company. My tangibles include some 300 dollar oakleys, new roush striped mustang, roommate's dog lol, and I have travel pictures.
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Who cares about that.

Show us the Abs!
 
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You could be dead broke but if you look like Chad you will clean up online
 
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My profile picture is a serious but great portrait shot. After that a laughing picture in costume (I'm an actor) and in the last one a picture in suit with some friends.

Profile is one funny sentence (which girls can react to).
Works pretty well for me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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