"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need some movitation

sijas

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It's almost summer and I'm going to be a freshman. I live in a small town with a population of less than 8,000 people, and the schools are pretty small. The high school I'm about to go to has roughly around 500 kids, maybe less. There is barely anything fun to do in this town, all it has is a bowling alley and a movie theatre for entertainment. I moved here 2 years ago and it seems like I'm an outsider because everyone knew everyone except for me. I don't really hang out with kids because they don't really seem to notice me except an occasional hi or some sort of greeting. Basically sometimes I feel that I'm an outsider that doesn't fit in, not in a bad way, it's just how it is. I would appreciate any info on how to get along with people and maybe make some new friends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LearningSlowly

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High school changes a lot of things man. You have plenty of time left, and if you stay committed to this, you can be as popular as you want to be.

Get in shape.

Talk to everyone right away. Your first day is all about memorizing names and faces.

Seek to hang out with the hottest girls and to be able to touch them.

Good luck man, you'll do great.
 

alxrose04

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Well my friend, if it makes you feel any better, many of history's greats were loners. I'm glad that you don't see it as a bad thing. That tells me that you have a great perspective. But LearningSlowly said it best; talk to everyone, never stop improving, and SMILE! Trust me, don't underestimate the power of the smile. It's your deadliest weapon, my friend. Best of luck!

Cheers!
 
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