"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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http://www.petrukhine.ru/gallery/albums/schwarzenegger_arnold/schwarzenegger_arnold_009.jpgbeercan said:
set it as centred
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roflmfao! nice one dude!shagnscoob said:
I just checked his stats, 160lb :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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howardalex said:
haha theres a lot of BIG muscleheads on the board but thats what I'd like to look like honestly. I didn't realize he weighed so little though. whered you find that out?
http://www.animalpak.com/sub/PDF/ShutTheFUp.pdf
There are more here...
http://www.animalpak.com/html/sections.cfm?id=47
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oops sorry dude, thought you were kiddingshagnscoob said:
I can't remember where I found that but he's 160lb and like 6' tall, IMO nowhere big enough - you've gotta take into account that he'll look tiny in clothes, I weigh 168lb @ 5'7 and I'm only just getting into large size tops (with a 28" waist, m'not fat
)IMO Ryan Reynolds has a much better physique, you should have a look at him
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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