"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Need some leverage to get optics store to give me what they owe, give me suggestions.

solo1

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Anyway i prescribed these new glasses almost 3 weeks ago, the instant i wore them, they were already strong on my eyes and if that happens im certain there's something wrong with the lens, as its happened in the past. i told the guy, he said it takes some time to adjust to the new lens. my new glasses's lens are the same degree as my old ones, but it's a different store this time.

Ok i agreed, gave it some time. for awhile there were no problems....soon i was fed up, almost every day my eyes watered, become irritated, and by the end of the day my eye veins become red.

So today afterwork i go to the store. I told the fvcker (the same one who told me to give it time) my problems and there's obviously something wrong with lens. long story short, he made some adjustments and said optics point not aligned with eye. argued for a bit, then he spoke with the manager. mentioned something about different type of lens, and comparing it to my old pair. said something about if i get the other lens i will have to pay 40 or 80 or some ****. I dindt have my old pair with me, so i said i'd be back tomorrow.

Anyway my aim tomorrow is to get the lens fixed or changed but to avoid paying the **** fee they made. Cuz im under contract for 2 yrs for those glasses.
I was thinking of calling the cops and using them as leverage if i cant get my demands.

Any suggestions?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gonzalo

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Tell them you couldn't go to work because of that, or couldn't sleep, or somehow lost money because of that problem. That should ring of lawsuit in their ears and make them a bit more cooperative.
 

solo1

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i dropped by yesterday as i said i would. took like a freakin hr.
But finally tested the new lens and my old lens...The model type and curve. And obviously having done that, found it was their fault.

He apologized and sent me off. Now just gotta wait for a week till they get it replaced. wearing my old pair in the meantime.
 

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Calling the cops?

They have better things to do than to referee civil disputes.
 
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