"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need some insight

rocksoff

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Well here's my situation.......Me and a girl ive known for few years have always had a thing for each other and just a few months ago we started having sex all the time but we never made "us" official......the thing is when shes around other guys like her ex and certain people she completely acts like nothing goes on between us and will flirt with guys(so pretty much she has to hide us around certain people)............I know she doesnt do anything with other guys and I should be glad that I have a beautiful girl to get down with whenever ..but its kind of annoying and I dont Know if I should deal with it anymore and just ditch her........theres plenty of girls I could get with and she knows that......I just dont even know what to feel just wanted some insight from some people with more expirience then me thanksmuch
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You guys are just having sex, don't make it more than what it really is.
 

christz

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there's a huge difference between haveing sex with a girl and a girl haveing sex with you its the guy that calls her all the time and hangs out that doesn't get the sex but gets everything else that you should put your eye on not that it really matters..
 
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