"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rocksoff

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Well here's my situation.......Me and a girl ive known for few years have always had a thing for each other and just a few months ago we started having sex all the time but we never made "us" official......the thing is when shes around other guys like her ex and certain people she completely acts like nothing goes on between us and will flirt with guys(so pretty much she has to hide us around certain people)............I know she doesnt do anything with other guys and I should be glad that I have a beautiful girl to get down with whenever ..but its kind of annoying and I dont Know if I should deal with it anymore and just ditch her........theres plenty of girls I could get with and she knows that......I just dont even know what to feel just wanted some insight from some people with more expirience then me thanksmuch
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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You guys are just having sex, don't make it more than what it really is.
 

christz

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there's a huge difference between haveing sex with a girl and a girl haveing sex with you its the guy that calls her all the time and hangs out that doesn't get the sex but gets everything else that you should put your eye on not that it really matters..
 
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