“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Need some insight on this dumbass girl

wysiwyg6000

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Long story short, I hit it off really good with this chick from Match.com in early October...we talked all the time on AIM and all that stuff, but I wanted to take it further (actually meeting in person and getting the show on the road). Well...she started acting whishy washy towards it and basically brushed me off. So i was like, **** her, so i stopped talking to her. now that i've stopped talking to her, she starts IMing me when I'm away (usually agreeing or making a remark about my away message). how do I deal with this almost bipolar like situation? also, she usually asks me once a month whether I'm seeing anyone and all that sort of stuff. personally, i have no real interest in that girl, i basically got fed up with her and her bull****. but still, i cant resist a potential piece of ass, so you can see where I'm coming from on this.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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If someone doesn't want to meet you or
at least talk on the phone pretty quickly,
I would say it's a complete waste of time.
She could be hired by Match.com to string
you along for all you know.
Drop this one.
 

wysiwyg6000

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Originally posted by NatureGuy
If someone doesn't want to meet you or
at least talk on the phone pretty quickly,
I would say it's a complete waste of time.
She could be hired by Match.com to string
you along for all you know.
Drop this one.
I got her phone number on the second week, called her a few days later, talked for about a half an hour. we talked on AIM a few times afterwards and I tried calling her again, left a message on voicemail and the ***** never called back! yet, she had no problem talking on AIM the next day..go figure (I dont think this girl has very much self confidence or balls from what i've observed)
 

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She likes chatting with you on AIM, but that's about it!!!


NEXT!!!!



PIMP
 

NatureGuy

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I got her phone number on the second week, called her a few days later, talked for about a half an hour. we talked on AIM a few times afterwards and I tried calling her again, left a message on voicemail and the ***** never called back! yet, she had no problem talking on AIM the next day..go figure (I dont think this girl has very much self confidence or balls from what i've observed)
Yes, she seems to like the
electronic chat but not much else.
Spend your time with someone who
wants and appreciates you.
Drop this one.
 

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This girl is what I call a liar. She has misrepresented herself as someone who wants to date. Clearly, she does not. You have several choices.

1. Continue to IM her for the rest of your born days
2. Block all communications.
3. Tell her that you joined match.com to date and match up, not to IM for the next 6 months. Tell her you understand why she may be scared, but you are fearless. You know that if nothing is ventured, nothing is gained. Then drop all communication until she sees you in public.

Chances are you will want to run.
 

wysiwyg6000

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Originally posted by Big Pappy
This girl is what I call a liar. She has misrepresented herself as someone who wants to date. Clearly, she does not. You have several choices.

1. Continue to IM her for the rest of your born days
2. Block all communications.
3. Tell her that you joined match.com to date and match up, not to IM for the next 6 months. Tell her you understand why she may be scared, but you are fearless. You know that if nothing is ventured, nothing is gained. Then drop all communication until she sees you in public.

Chances are you will want to run.
I like what you said in number 3, I'm not looking for an internet penpal, I'm looking to date someone...apparently, someone needs to fill her in on this (the stupidity is: she relisted her profile!)
 
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Fawk that, let that byatch go. No ho is worth this much drama.

When you pull away they come to you,but is it worth handing her your nutz?..hell no
 
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