“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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need some info on direct game

xdreamz

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yesterday i was at the club trying direct game, i was telling this one HB 9 that she was sexy and at first she ran away but i was like "i said you were sexy ey!" and grabbed her arm and i could tell she liked it she seemed interested really fast.

but after a few minutes, i wasn't too sure what i was supposed to be doing so i started saying whatever came to mind and she ended up hitting me and kicked me in the knee (maybe it was playful?)...

any suggestions on what to do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonJoseCantosie

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She prolly thought in the manner that u did it, at the start...that u were just saying it to say it...but then after that...she took it as flirting. But next time tho, when u say sexy...look deep in her eyes with a smile...i mean deep with a warm smile. Trust me the reaction will be different. Just do it in a manner of "Ur beautiful and i chose you" than just a compliment, she could've taken it just as "only" a compliment. Direct is not a compliment but as a qualifier.

For further info with direct:

www.direct-method.com/invisionboard

AND

The former main direct site, but has lots of excellent posts

www.directthegame.com

Forgot to mention, she was being playful with u i bet ;-)
 

marinetti

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you have some major balls man, but probably didn't have the proper vibe to pull off a direct "you are sexy" opening.
 

milrenkb

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Juggler (Charisma Arts), Woodhaven, Sean Newman (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8UI23x_usRY) and Zan Perion are all good at teaching natural game. Keep in mind direct game doesn't mean you have too open with a compliment. Those guys will teach you more than I ever could in a single post.

One more thing, if you do open with a compliment it should always be sincere. The best way to describe it would be 50% platonic/50% sexual.

- All killer no filler
 
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