"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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need some info for this environment

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GloriouslyInsane

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Hi guys,
Lately I moved to an extremely small town for studies, there are 5k total residents of which half are students,even though that doesnt seem very bad the guy to girl ratio among the students is about 9 to 1(and from them 1/3 arent less than 5s).

On top of that theres almost no nightlife and the girls are nowhere to be found at daytime too (i checked the library,coffeeshops etc) they dont even come to class.

And on top of that the freshman girls seem to get in a relationship almost instantly as they get here usually first time i see then is randomly on the street.

So i ask if anyone has any ideas or ill have to learn to sarge on the streets?

Thanks,
GI
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rex Man

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Using your data, there are approximately 1500 women in a 5000 person town. Considering the large male population, one can deduce that the vast majority are either married, a much different age, or not into men. What the hell are we supposed to say?

Please don't bump again until you move.
 
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