"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm dealing with a 45 year old women, who has seen me at my weakest points in life, she has always been there for me. Point being she doesn't want to have sex anymore because it was getting to much like a relationship. She has been married twice. She explain she just wants to take time for herself. In the past I have been over bearing, to available, AND TO CLINGY, AND MAYBE NEEDY. I think she is afraid it will go back to the same behaviors I showed in the past. I just want to continue to have sex with her but I'm having trouble with this. What are somethings I could do to improve my chances of having sex with her again. Without all the other shi.. that was experienced before. ANy help on this matter would be great....Frost
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ya, stop wanting to have sex with her and she'll start wanting to have sex with you.

she's telling you that you aren't giving her the things she needs in your relationship with her.

when a man isn't giving a woman what she needs she withholds the only thing he cares about... sex.

what else are they going to withhold from you? they got little else to offer that men care about.

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