Ok I met this girl friday she was pretty cool we talked for a while and talking went to holding and holding went to kissing. Neither one of us were drunk or anything so we both completely knew what was happening. At the end of the night i got her number and she told me to give her a call the next day. So i called saturday and she said she was going out and she would call me later....well she never called....so I called again today (sunday) and it looks like a repeat of yesterday...shes not gonna call...What should I do??? Should i wait and let her call me or should i call her again tomorrow? Im dont know what to do.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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