"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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need some help

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Well I've been applying some of the the stuff i've read through the DJ bible and some advice from this site and im getting better at talking to girls only thing I still need to work on is approach confidence and oneitis.. anyway theres this girl who lives in my cousins complex where im staying for a few weeks and me and this girl kicked it off pretty well since we met shes about a 5.5/6 I won't lie but this is for practice purposes.. anyway we chilled a lot when I was a AFC (still kinda am haha) and I decided to tell her I was feeling her about a couple weeks ago she said she would of gave me a chance except for the fact she was seeing someone.. but if shes seeing someone why do I always catch her looking at me, flirting, and she even said she doesn't really like the people here she only comes out for me blah blah.. well once she told me that I backed off a bit because I thought I was being friend zoned and we started talking again and she still seems interested but then at the same time not. Is it to late me for me? have I been friend zoned or was she just testing me..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DB12 said:
... but if shes seeing someone why do I always catch her looking at me, flirting, and she even said she doesn't really like the people here she only comes out for me blah blah.. well once she told me that I backed off a bit because I thought I was being friend zoned and we started talking again and she still seems interested but then at the same time not. Is it to late me for me? have I been friend zoned or was she just testing me..
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What they say may be interesting. But its what they do that's important.
 

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Tictac said:

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What they say may be interesting. But its what they do that's important.
So you would say keep gaming her or should I try kino when im with her and go for a kiss close? iuno what to do..
 
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