Well I've been applying some of the the stuff i've read through the DJ bible and some advice from this site and im getting better at talking to girls only thing I still need to work on is approach confidence and oneitis.. anyway theres this girl who lives in my cousins complex where im staying for a few weeks and me and this girl kicked it off pretty well since we met shes about a 5.5/6 I won't lie but this is for practice purposes.. anyway we chilled a lot when I was a AFC (still kinda am haha) and I decided to tell her I was feeling her about a couple weeks ago she said she would of gave me a chance except for the fact she was seeing someone.. but if shes seeing someone why do I always catch her looking at me, flirting, and she even said she doesn't really like the people here she only comes out for me blah blah.. well once she told me that I backed off a bit because I thought I was being friend zoned and we started talking again and she still seems interested but then at the same time not. Is it to late me for me? have I been friend zoned or was she just testing me..
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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- Thread starter DB12
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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----------DB12 said:
What they say may be interesting. But its what they do that's important.