"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need some help

steve_erkle

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So i've improven much in the last few months. I became less shy and now im making connections with girls and my humor is finally coming out. Im happy with what i am doing but have much room for improvement. Here's a problem i have that I was hoping you guys could help me with.

I always wonder, basically stress, over what all of my friends are doing. It's like I have to know what is going on constantly or I feel like I'm missing out. I constantly feel like my friends are out having fun, when there is no proof and they are probably doing nothing special. How can i stop worrying and just be content with whatever I am doing?

P.S- I'm popular and have a lot of friends (I'm not a loser in any way, i just always feel like I could be having more fun, even when I am out.)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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steve_erkle

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BUMP

Also, if you guys don't get what I mean, here's another example

When i go on vacation to somewhere far away with my family, i will text/call my friends every day to see what has been going on to make sure i didn't miss anything fun.
 

COD

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pills..........dude sounds like u needs sum meds.

Nothing wrong being kept in the loop but sounds like you get bored way too easily and have a short attention span. You can be comfortable with yourself..........hmmmm meds might help.
 
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