"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need some help

steve_erkle

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So i've improven much in the last few months. I became less shy and now im making connections with girls and my humor is finally coming out. Im happy with what i am doing but have much room for improvement. Here's a problem i have that I was hoping you guys could help me with.

I always wonder, basically stress, over what all of my friends are doing. It's like I have to know what is going on constantly or I feel like I'm missing out. I constantly feel like my friends are out having fun, when there is no proof and they are probably doing nothing special. How can i stop worrying and just be content with whatever I am doing?

P.S- I'm popular and have a lot of friends (I'm not a loser in any way, i just always feel like I could be having more fun, even when I am out.)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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steve_erkle

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BUMP

Also, if you guys don't get what I mean, here's another example

When i go on vacation to somewhere far away with my family, i will text/call my friends every day to see what has been going on to make sure i didn't miss anything fun.
 

COD

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pills..........dude sounds like u needs sum meds.

Nothing wrong being kept in the loop but sounds like you get bored way too easily and have a short attention span. You can be comfortable with yourself..........hmmmm meds might help.
 
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