Need some help with a new kind of girl

[irocknike23]

First of hello all, long time no post.

By this title"new kind of girl" this is a girl that has a personality type I never encountered before, but im sure many of you have and can help me,
bear with me this might get a little lengthy:


I met this girl at this little get together about 2 weeks ago. She seemed really hot, like to me she is a legit 9. However that night I had my mind on other things so I payed almost no attention to her. She noticed me and started talking to me and I just kept brushing her off(was depressed that night about other things going). I conversated with her a little bit but mainly treated her like crap. 3 days later we all went to six flags amusement park(me and 4 of my friends and her and 5 of her friends). The whole time we were there, it was the same thing I just kept brushing her off and giving her the cold shoulder.

A week later my friend who is very good friends with this girl says that she has been asking for my number all week long. I told him that she can have it. Now she has been texting me and its been going good(im in a way better mood now).

The thing is my friend who is good friends with this girl used to mess around with her back in the day, but does not anymore because he is engaged.



He basically told me how it is with her and gave me a sort of game plan.
He told me that she loves guys that are jerks, she gets attached and attracted to that type of personality extremely easy. He told me thats why she wanted my number-because im "her kind of guy"

however I just blew her off both times because the first time I was just mad at something else and the second time I was having too much fun in the park(plus there was another girl there I was trying to talk to)

he told me that when I hang out with her(on Saturday) to treat her like crap(moderatly, not hard core) and keep my cool. then he said to keep texting her and talking to her but blow her off the next 2 times she wants to hang out and then on the 3rd time to accept to kick it and by then according to him, she should be DTF......



my problem:

im not that kind of jerk guy. the last girl I talked to liked the whole, goodnight/good-morning texts, random surprises and lots of jokes and laughs, not treating her like she is a floor-mat..

to you guys that have been around girls like this, how should I act when I'm around her? pay no attention to her, pay some attention...etc.....

comment on if she looks good, dont comment...etc.....



thats just what I need help in, never dealed with this type of girl





oh and to you fellas that understand the female brains some, I would really love to know why do some girls get attracted when you treat them like crap? i dont get it..

 

[Johnnyventana]

oh and to you fellas that understand the female brains some, I would really love to know why do some girls get attracted when you treat them like crap? i dont get it..

Because those kinds of girls are F'd in the head. It's that simple.

 

[Mike32ct]

Because those kinds of girls are F'd in the head. It's that simple.

Agreed. There are VOLUMES of theories on this. Honestly, it's not worth beating your head against the wall to figure it out.

 

[AlphaNate]

You don't have to be mean to her to be sexy to her.

If you literally DO have to be mean, then yes, she's crazy bro. Move on.

 

[Jair213]

You don't have to be mean to her to be sexy to her.

If you literally DO have to be mean, then yes, she's crazy bro. Move on.

yup

 

[irocknike23]

i just want to hit it and quit it 1 time, not looking for a relationship

 

[spartanfan]

Wow this girl sounds absolutely nuts and man I would be very careful she isn't crazy. This could turn out very badly for you since if she is f'ed in the head she knows most of your friends and you know what that means . Just be on the lookout for those crazy stalker type signs... She might transform into a clinger after you give her what she wants??

Don't know but there are plenty more chicks in the sea than just this one. I would NC for a week or so and see if she goes nuts first then if she's still cool with a good excuse I would venture further..

Good Luck Man!!

 

[roman81]

Do what your friend said!!

 

[Johnnyventana]

And read this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=191893

 

[floydb25]

She's at the bottom of the barrel. Might not be crazy, but definitely trouble. Low self-esteem, daddy issues, abusive relationships, bullying, abandonment / neglect in the past... Take your pick. A loser is not worth figuring out - that's all this girl is. She loves chaos and drama, and bad people in general. All she will do is bring you down, and cause problems.

Hit it and quit it is all she's worth, and she'll probably set it up that way (only to complain about it - as she's cheating on her fiance with you). Just gotta keep your distance as you have been. She'll probably come to you. All while crying and *****ing about how much of a jerk you are.

These girls are bad news all around. You can't really figure them out, because they have no sense. Nothing they do makes any sense. They're trash, and are a glutton for trouble and chaos... That's really all you need to know. Don't sympathize with trash. Don't dig deep, and try figuring them out. Don't get caught up in their BS, because they will try. It's a chaotic trainwreck just waiting to happen - because they're not balanced, healthy, happy people. They have major issues well beyond your control.

Remember: its not always about game or attraction. Some people are messed up.

 

[irocknike23]

Thanks for the advice guys, you may be right...


I talked to my friend and he said that her senior year a dude took her to prom and the dude that took her barely knew her and went as friends..

she ended up stalking him for 3 months during the whole summer(the past summer)



she is freaking hot, but IDK if stalker is worth it, I never had one but it never sounds fun