"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need some help w/ diff girls

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Advice please

A) HB 9 gives eye contact and smiles, say hi when we pass, all that, I don't think I'm too interested in her though unless she makes an effort. Recently just formally "met" her and introduced myself name exchanged.

B) HB 9 sit next to her in a class, whenever I say something to her she laughs at it 95% of the time, for real. Usually we joke about things that are funny because they are so true in life. Occasionally we make eye contact when passing by in the halls and smile say hi and all that.

C) HB 8.5 Met her roughly 4-5 months ago with her initiating contact with me. She didn't know my name, but I knew her because she's fairly popular. She had a boyfriend when she met me, but ****, she didn't act like it. Hugs, kino, intense eye contact, you name it; I can't see how I could be overplaying this at all, but I guess it's possible since I like her alot.

D) HB 9 Met her in the beginning of the year with her kinda initiating. We would talk about school stuff alot, she'd get answers off me and we'd trade homework and stuff. Now it's moved to a closer relationship, I'm pretty sure we're only friends, but nothing is 100%.

E) HB 7 Slut to be honest. I could get an easy lay if I wanted, and I don't want to sound weird, but I want my first time to be special.

Now, questions:

With girl B, is this what I'm aiming for with neg and playful tease and sexual aimed convos?

We're learning about the holocaust, Jews had to get their noses measured or some **** (lol) to check if they were over certain measurement. So I'm like "Cutting it pretty close there eh?" (pointing at her nose) she laughs and tells me to shut up. I think that's the idea?

With girl C, boyfriend, but .. is it good if she gears the convo in any sexual way when what I'm saying has NOTHING to do with that? Plus I want to know if this is what is meant by push/pull --

Walking down the hall to class with her like usual, she waits for me at her locker. I walk up and I'm like "Cmon" and she goes in front and we go toward class. After we get out of the mosh of people we walk side by side and she starts critizing me on how I always take forever. I'm like "Don't harp on me girl" "How'd you like that vocab?" (she used a word before that I didn't know what it meant and told me I needed to work on it xD)

She's said something like "You know I like it when you do that.." or something of that sort. I was like "Bet it turns you on big time huh?" "Yeah def " Also didn't walk with her on the way back from class (we usually do) and she hit my ass and said "Oh so you don't wait for me now?" Figured it was good because I left her wanting more time with me. (think that's right lol)


Along those lines, anyway.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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faiNt`

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MacAvoy said:
I didn't see any questions. You seem to have things under control though.
Bolded them xD. I'm not really sure how to move from this to more serious thing where you go over to a girl's house to have fun with her.
 
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