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Need some help... quick pick ups on bus...

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Need some help... girls on bus...

Hey I'm actually a bus driver and I'll tell you what...
There's a lot of beautiful women walking through the world nowadays...
Especially where I live. Listen, so I need some help though.

I have been working for a few months and if I want to generally I'll get a girls # if she seems interested... Only problem is a lot of times they are from out of town or drunk, have bf's already etc and don't remember meeting me or whatever. I'm over all that. Now I just want to set up a place to meetup in the future / next few days or just set up a come over to my place if she's really interested.

Logistically this is difficult. For instance, today I had a girl get on we had intense eye contact even before she got on. She sat in the seat closest to me on the bus, and we talked about where she and her friend were going tonight but she was just getting off the bus at the next stop so I had approx 30 seconds to run game and set up a future date...

Remember I don't even want to bother with getting a girls # anymore unless absolutely necessary... Big problem I've been having is I don't get done driving until after 3 am usually and all the bars / stores are closed, so there's really no place to meetup except my place... and what girl is going to come over at 4 or 5 in the morning... not many....

Any ideas appreciated... just throw them out there... nothings too silly or out there...
 
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n52

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I'm going to say most people get on the bus assuming that they are going from A to B and not going to get chatted up. Leading on from this I can only imagine women you are talking to are assuming you're a friendly driver, nothing more.

Are you from England? If so I have no idea why you'd even consider chatting up a girl being stuck in that box like cabin. If that were me I wouldn't even bother.
 

El Payaso

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So you drive the bus EVERYDAY? You have to have at least one or two days off. If not, you might want to seek out a better schedule.
 
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Logistics

guys thanks for the replies,

I'm really just looking for in general a quick scenario pick up where you have maybe 10 seconds to close...I get #'s all the time driving... but I guess what I was looking for was a way to close the deal when I don't have time to chat obviously cause I'm driving and she's got places to go too... What I've figured out is I just say let's continue this..."call me now so I have your #"

It works...but sometimes it's difficult to make a solid connection...#'s are worthless in my opinion unless it's a really solid interaction...I want to go from talking to ****ing that night but I don't usually get done till 3 am so therein lies the logistical dilemma...
 

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This is a weird situation because you're trying to pick up women at your job, while working, in a small window of time, while driving, and your job is considered pretty low end. Sort of similiar to trying to "connect" with girls while working drive through at a fast food place. I'm sure it comes across as a bit weird and the quality ones are probably not going to think highly of you.

I don't think there is any easy way. As for finding time at night, you must have at least a day or two off per week. The one positive side to this is you're getting some pretty good experience as you're basically trying to pick up women on Nightmare difficulty.
 
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Difficulty nightmarish situation

Yewki,

Thanks for the reply...

Well, honestly I drive in a pretty fancy town, and I actually get hit on a lot by girls while I'm driving. Alot of times they are drunk though cause it's late at night... haha... I make pretty good money, and my status is pretty high because I'm the person in charge at that moment as the driver.

I get #'s all the time and kisses on the cheek, etc... but honestly it's just a hassle... I've got it down pretty good now as far as technique, I'm direct... I say come up and keep me company while I drive, and they do...but still get some girls that are just a pain in the ass as far as putting out b.s or later they have boyfriends, etc.

Fellas I've got everything down pretty much at this point and I wouldn't say it's nightmarish, just difficult cause I work so much and don't have much free time to date... so probably next year I'll work days instead of nights, probably will be better for a healthy sexy life..
 
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