"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need some help (crying?)

GloriouslyInsane

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I was last night with my girl and at some point i made intense EC for a couple of minutes,after which she hugged me and started crying softly.I didn't ask her what's the matter because she stopped shortly after.After that she was a new person being alot happier and energetic (for the rest of the night) and trying to please me.

So..anyone got any ideas what happened right there? I don't think it's a negative thing but it boggles my mind.

Thanks in advance.

GI
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mastacheef

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GloriouslyInsane said:
I was last night with my girl and at some point i made intense EC for a couple of minutes,after which she hugged me and started crying softly.I didn't ask her what's the matter because she stopped shortly after.After that she was a new person being alot happier and energetic (for the rest of the night) and trying to please me.

So..anyone got any ideas what happened right there? I don't think it's a negative thing but it boggles my mind.

Thanks in advance.

GI
sounds like after the EC she realized she likes you alot? i.e. doesnt want to lose you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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New2Town

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Don't put it in her a$$. That's probably why she was whimpering.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Maybe, i only got positive vibes but it really took me by surprise.Anyway i was hoping someone had a similar experience.

edit: lol @ new2town , yeah that must be the case ;)
 
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