"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need some help (crying?)

GloriouslyInsane

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I was last night with my girl and at some point i made intense EC for a couple of minutes,after which she hugged me and started crying softly.I didn't ask her what's the matter because she stopped shortly after.After that she was a new person being alot happier and energetic (for the rest of the night) and trying to please me.

So..anyone got any ideas what happened right there? I don't think it's a negative thing but it boggles my mind.

Thanks in advance.

GI
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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mastacheef

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GloriouslyInsane said:
I was last night with my girl and at some point i made intense EC for a couple of minutes,after which she hugged me and started crying softly.I didn't ask her what's the matter because she stopped shortly after.After that she was a new person being alot happier and energetic (for the rest of the night) and trying to please me.

So..anyone got any ideas what happened right there? I don't think it's a negative thing but it boggles my mind.

Thanks in advance.

GI
sounds like after the EC she realized she likes you alot? i.e. doesnt want to lose you
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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New2Town

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Don't put it in her a$$. That's probably why she was whimpering.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Maybe, i only got positive vibes but it really took me by surprise.Anyway i was hoping someone had a similar experience.

edit: lol @ new2town , yeah that must be the case ;)
 
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