robrenz
New Member
Here’s my story, out with the guys around 5 months ago, just chillin, run into an old childhood friend and her gf's, basic chat no intentions being nice to all her friends, maybe put more focus on one then I thought, couple of drinks later and we all decide to go to the dinner, at the dinner go to sit next to my buddy & the one chick goes " what’s the matter do not want to sit next to me" thinking nothing of it I said "what" she explains -well we were talking all night so I figured we can continue, so I mack it and sit next to her, not really focusing my attention on her to much, doing my normal C&F, she eats it up...we finsh and start to head out, on the way out i throw out the line "If you want me to do you a "favor" give me your #" BAM, cell digits, home digits, where she works, the whole 9, mind up I am not really into her, this is where it gets crazy, call a few days later, some small talk, I explain to her its not a good time for me to be in a relationship, but a great time in my life, I just bought a house, closed on some other land investment and so what, so my focus was not on spending time on a GF, she said no problem but still would like to go out, we meet for some drinks, good convo, all is good, does not want the date to end, go have night cap at another bar, when it was time to leave, she throws me down on the front set of her car and we go at it, in the parking lot, then she stops and says "I can't take u home tonight" so I say no prob, had no intentions of that...OK so yadda yadda yadda, we date for like 5 months, all is fine, tells me she never had anyone treat her this good, this is all she ever wanted in a relationship, and all that, mind you she has not been in a serious relationship for 4 years, really has nothing going for her, lives Pay check 2 Paycheck, does nails for a living, unable to have kids, and to top it off she has HPV (An STD)...here’s the kicker, one day she says to me that she is not feeling it anymore, I am like what the F, so we take a break, doing the whole no contact, few days later she ends it, what I do not understand is why does it bother me, she really had nothing to offer me, but it stings like a mofo, here I am, mid 30's own a house, great job, healthy and investments on the side and I am sick to my stomach that some 35 year old nail tech walks away, and believe me I had my share is ladies, from 7's - 11's so meeting is not a problem, why is it the ones that u really do not care about a future with hurt the most...Sorry for the long winded rant...