need some feedback

[frusciante1234]

ok so this is a weird situation. Normally im pretty good with girls, at least with getting girls to f*ck. I met a girl at my job 2 months ago however who I really like. It takes alot for me to really like a girl, but me and her just get along so well its insane. So for 2 months I let this thing slowly build, (I was f*cking other girls on the side) we just hung out alot at work. We became extremely close and it started becoming obvious to coworkers that we should be dating. Our interactions started becoming much more physical and I basically started getting the impression that this girl was really into me. Last week I told her I was getting tickets to a concert on saturday and she ended up getting tickets also. I figured we would probably hook up at the concert.

I got to the concert late and she was texting me where are you, ect. I ran to the venue just after the band came on and somehow by luck i ran into her. Things were going well, she gave me a huge hug and proceeded to dance on me, put her arms around me and hold my hand all night. So later on in the show, as were holding hands during one of the softer songs, I asked her if she wanted to make out. And she shook her head no!! wtf? She smiled while she said no and I just acted like ok, no big deal and we kept holding hands through the next song, but sweriously wtf? The last thing I was expecting...

 

[NewAndImproved]

I asked her if she wanted to make out. And she shook her head no!! wtf? She smiled while she said no and I just acted like ok, no big deal and we kept holding hands through the next song, but sweriously wtf? The last thing I was expecting...

1. Don't ask in the future. Just do.
2. Sounds like she was kidding.

 

[frusciante1234]

yeah I guess I was probably just being a dumbass, I should of just hooked up with her. How do u think I should handle the situation now? I got laid off from my job so we no longer work together

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Your mindset is already going to get you in trouble with this chick....

Your treating her like she's "special" already by doing things you normally wouldn't do. You say your good with getting girls to drop their panties for you..... do you ever ask any of those girls if they'll let you fuvk them???

There's definitely attraction between you two and if you continue this "special" routine you were running at the concert, you'll lose her. And WTF are you thinking holding hands with her???? You guys aren't even dating!!

Don't get overly emotional over this girl before you've gotten physical with her. This is what causes guys to think the girl is so different and great. Run game on her, build that attraction and then dominate her!



PIMP

 

[frusciante1234]

the thing is pimpsicle is that this girl is definate relationship material to me, not just someone I want to fuvk. Thats what I was trying to say is that I'm good at just getting with girls, but this is a girl I actually like more than that. I dont really want to just run game and dominate her. And btw, the holding hands thing was all her, she instigated all that stuff, not me. I've treated her very nonchalantly ever since I met her, but judging by her actions, I thought she would have jumped on an opportunity to kiss me. Now however I think that she probably wanted me to just do it, regardless of what she said. I just hope that I didnt dissappoint her too much by not doing it.

 

[snowdog]

1. Don't ask in the future. Just do.

i agree.