"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zephiel

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Hey guys, this actually my first post on this forum. Pretty casanovaish place lol

I kind of stumbled here when I was trying to figure out how to talk to this girl. IMO she's cute: blonde hair, blue eyes, almost as tall as I am, but the problem is she is 1-2 years below me.

I never had the nerve to talk with her, I see her by the bus stop occasionally, but I never had the nerve to go up to her and ask her what her name was, etc., Heck its hard to make eye contact with her. The problem is I have been keeping at this way too long, now the year is almost ending... how can I start this... What should I say to start the conversation.. she is like a complete stranger who I wanted to speak with but haven't

One of the problems is that I don't know what her interests are. She seems a bit more on the reserved side unless around really close friends...

Thanks for replies :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do a search next time. This is not an unusual topic, many guys are afraid of speaking with a girl if they are not sure of what to say. In the end, it's not what you say, but how you say it. The greatest opener is "hi", it's also the simplest, and most universal, carry through with a smile, and eye contact. carry on from there.

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