Hey Fellas,
I'm new to the board and was hoping to get some feedback.
I'm taking a chick out tonight for what amounts to a third date.
The first date we grabbed drinks at an Italian restaurant and wound out going out to two bars. We kissed a bit, danced, etc. Wound up sharing a cab together home to her place and was denied going upstairs.
The second game we watched NFL games at a bar. I backed off and didn't touch her as much. She wound up having a good time. Walked her home, kissed a bit, called it a day.
Didn't talk to her for a day and a half and invited her to a NHL game. I get free tickets through my job.
So, here were are. Date three. We were pretty flirty and sexual on the phone before we met. However, I have noticed that has tailed off. I haven't been overly sexual with her since. Last night, I.E., we chatted on the phone but I didn't try to change frames to a sexual tone. I have been trying to show a bit of restraint.
My gut feeling says that her interest is lukewarm. I'm just not sure how to approach tonight. I'm torn from being playing it cool to trying to be a tad bit more aggressive.
My question to you vets is, how would you approach tonight? Would you lay back, have fun, and not push for the hookup tonight. Or would you pile on the ****iness and sexual innuendos and try to see if you could get something at the end of the night?
Thanks in advance,
I'm new to the board and was hoping to get some feedback.
I'm taking a chick out tonight for what amounts to a third date.
The first date we grabbed drinks at an Italian restaurant and wound out going out to two bars. We kissed a bit, danced, etc. Wound up sharing a cab together home to her place and was denied going upstairs.
The second game we watched NFL games at a bar. I backed off and didn't touch her as much. She wound up having a good time. Walked her home, kissed a bit, called it a day.
Didn't talk to her for a day and a half and invited her to a NHL game. I get free tickets through my job.
So, here were are. Date three. We were pretty flirty and sexual on the phone before we met. However, I have noticed that has tailed off. I haven't been overly sexual with her since. Last night, I.E., we chatted on the phone but I didn't try to change frames to a sexual tone. I have been trying to show a bit of restraint.
My gut feeling says that her interest is lukewarm. I'm just not sure how to approach tonight. I'm torn from being playing it cool to trying to be a tad bit more aggressive.
My question to you vets is, how would you approach tonight? Would you lay back, have fun, and not push for the hookup tonight. Or would you pile on the ****iness and sexual innuendos and try to see if you could get something at the end of the night?
Thanks in advance,
