is she playing games or what? do know what to do
First some background info. Ran into this girl about 1.5 – 2yrs ago only one time but never talked to her. We know mutual people. So I heard after I saw her that time she liked me or at least wanted to fvck me from multiple people. But I got into a ltr and that just ended like 2 months ago. So I went to a bar one night and she was there. I did not talk to her the whole night cause I just didn’t feel like it. So the next week I ran into her again at the bar. She came up to me started saying she wanted to talk to me that night how come I didn’t come up to her, that I act stuck up, im cute etc etc. That night at the bar we talked for a while got couple drinks down. As I was leaving we exchanged phone numbers, she said you call me im not going to call you so I said fine (I never call girls first in these situations) We kissed that night for like a couple of secs then I left. I said fvck it and called her 2 days later. She answers the phone and makes the convo quick
Her: hey what are you doin
Me: nothing
Her: what are u doing tonight?
Me: thinking about going to downtown to eat, u wanna come?
Her: no I already ate im with my friends driving ill call you when I get back home.
Me: ok
So no call back
I call her 1 week later here’s the convo
Her: what are you doin
Me: about to go to the bars
Her: oh that’s cool, hey im watching a movie can I call you back after?
Me: ok
She did call back but I didn’t have my phone on me though.
That night I got home scrolled through my phone and freakin dialed her at 3am by accident seriously. So after that I deleted her number.
Fast forward to this last weekened. My brother tells me hey you wanna come to so and sos (girls sister) bday party at this bar. I said no cause it would look creepy if went cause I don’t usually hang out at gatherings with those people there and I knew that girl would be there and wanted her to wonder where I was and which she did. The next day my brother tells me she asks where I was. He told her I was out and stuff. So I take a nap and wake up and check my cell phone yesterday (Sunday). I saw a phone number I was like this looks familiar but really didn’t know. So I called it and it was the girl. She asked me to go to a hockey game(NHL) I was like um maybe I don’t know didn’t want to sound to eager. Then she said I gotta know now. So I said yea I guess ill go. The game was fun I was making her laugh and everything. After the game this guy who went with her friend ( I actually was his old roommate, small world) was like dude she likes you she was asking if you are a good guy etc. When I had to go home she was like call me later this week and I said ok, you goin to diss me again or what (in a joking way) she said what no you didn’t pick up your phone when I called you that other weekend. But she said ill talk ot you next week. I didn’t give her a hug or anything or attempt to kiss her cause I didn’t know if it was the right time cause I don’t want ot seem anxious and act like im all over her even though I kind of want too. After I got home I text her and said thanks for everything again and I had fun goodnite. She replied back and said your welcome…ill talk to you later this week. So my question(s) did I handle everything ok? Shes kind of use to guys coming to her asking her out etc. I know I need to be different from the rest of the chumps. Even though she said call me should I? or should I just wait to see if she calls me again to hang out. Cause last time she said you better call me and I did then we ended up not doin anything then not talking for like 2 weeks. My hunch is too not call her this Friday night. If she doesn’t call then call her on Saturday night. this girl is cool and i dont want to fvck it up.
First some background info. Ran into this girl about 1.5 – 2yrs ago only one time but never talked to her. We know mutual people. So I heard after I saw her that time she liked me or at least wanted to fvck me from multiple people. But I got into a ltr and that just ended like 2 months ago. So I went to a bar one night and she was there. I did not talk to her the whole night cause I just didn’t feel like it. So the next week I ran into her again at the bar. She came up to me started saying she wanted to talk to me that night how come I didn’t come up to her, that I act stuck up, im cute etc etc. That night at the bar we talked for a while got couple drinks down. As I was leaving we exchanged phone numbers, she said you call me im not going to call you so I said fine (I never call girls first in these situations) We kissed that night for like a couple of secs then I left. I said fvck it and called her 2 days later. She answers the phone and makes the convo quick
Her: hey what are you doin
Me: nothing
Her: what are u doing tonight?
Me: thinking about going to downtown to eat, u wanna come?
Her: no I already ate im with my friends driving ill call you when I get back home.
Me: ok
So no call back
I call her 1 week later here’s the convo
Her: what are you doin
Me: about to go to the bars
Her: oh that’s cool, hey im watching a movie can I call you back after?
Me: ok
She did call back but I didn’t have my phone on me though.
That night I got home scrolled through my phone and freakin dialed her at 3am by accident seriously. So after that I deleted her number.
Fast forward to this last weekened. My brother tells me hey you wanna come to so and sos (girls sister) bday party at this bar. I said no cause it would look creepy if went cause I don’t usually hang out at gatherings with those people there and I knew that girl would be there and wanted her to wonder where I was and which she did. The next day my brother tells me she asks where I was. He told her I was out and stuff. So I take a nap and wake up and check my cell phone yesterday (Sunday). I saw a phone number I was like this looks familiar but really didn’t know. So I called it and it was the girl. She asked me to go to a hockey game(NHL) I was like um maybe I don’t know didn’t want to sound to eager. Then she said I gotta know now. So I said yea I guess ill go. The game was fun I was making her laugh and everything. After the game this guy who went with her friend ( I actually was his old roommate, small world) was like dude she likes you she was asking if you are a good guy etc. When I had to go home she was like call me later this week and I said ok, you goin to diss me again or what (in a joking way) she said what no you didn’t pick up your phone when I called you that other weekend. But she said ill talk ot you next week. I didn’t give her a hug or anything or attempt to kiss her cause I didn’t know if it was the right time cause I don’t want ot seem anxious and act like im all over her even though I kind of want too. After I got home I text her and said thanks for everything again and I had fun goodnite. She replied back and said your welcome…ill talk to you later this week. So my question(s) did I handle everything ok? Shes kind of use to guys coming to her asking her out etc. I know I need to be different from the rest of the chumps. Even though she said call me should I? or should I just wait to see if she calls me again to hang out. Cause last time she said you better call me and I did then we ended up not doin anything then not talking for like 2 weeks. My hunch is too not call her this Friday night. If she doesn’t call then call her on Saturday night. this girl is cool and i dont want to fvck it up.
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