Need some expert advice on weekend hookup

[sprinter911]

I have not been on the forum in years. I got into a LTR and recently have had some issues. This weekend I went out with my buddy and we ended up meeting a group of girls. I knew the one girl in the early 2000's I was friends with her brother. She is older than me and was always the cool girl in Highschool. She is a 10, makes a boat load of money, was a model at one point.

I had no intention of anything happening between the two of us but as we were catching up she continued to play with her hair and touch me during the convo. She just got married over a year ago and it sounded like things were not peachy during our convo.

Her and her friends invite us back to a lake house they had. We continue to talk and hang out during the night. About 5 am she grabs me and says we need to get some sleep ( says nothing will happen) and we head up stairs. We end up screwing around and getting no sleep. As we are leaving she says you have my cellphone number and kisses me walking out the door. She texted me thru the day yesterday and when she got home that was the last text I said lets keep in touch.

Is there any possible way that I can play this right and turn this into a regular hook up? What is the right way to play this ? As screwed up as this sounds I am interested in this girl. Growing up this girl was allways out of my league. Of course things are different now as I am very well off and successful in my own right.

I want to text her again at some point but am unsure what I should say or if it would come off creepy. I have hooked up with girls before and we always made it clear that is all this was and when it was done it was over. This was never established with her. I apologize for the long post. Thanks for any advice.

 

[sodbuster]

This is a boatload of ugly.... Not sure HOW you text a married woman asking for another hookup.... I'd maybe keep it small talk, see if she's serious about dropping him... SHE'LL bring it up.... you don't have to....

Just remember.... she's shown you who she is by her current actions.... think LONG and hard before getting serious with her

 

[bmp2cpm]

From what you say, it sounds like:

1) She's older than your current woman and going to hit menopause sooner than your current woman. Menopause sucks for a man. Always go younger.

2) As she makes a lot of money, she is a very independent women, who doesn't care much for what a man can offer her

3) When things get tough in her relationship, rather than communicating with her husband, she seeks other men, lying and manipulating

4) The reason you're now in her league is because she is older and can't get quality men as easily as before. As you get older, women you once couldn't get, you now can get. That's life. Are you planning to hook up with every woman who you couldn't hook up with previously?

After considering the above points, you still think she's a catch, then go for it.

Good luck with everything.

 

[sprinter911]

You guys are right... I have no idea what the heck happened.

I was having my own issues and what happened a few nights ago actually brought me a lot of happiness......which has been lacking... for some time.

It was like I was in a different world for 8 hours and when I returned to my reality it sucked.

This girl is my perfect match.... we have always had the same things in common and the same personalities. I have no doubt I am caught up in the moment.