Answers aren't going to "smoothen your skills." If you read the bible and be your own person, then that's all that it takes. Picking up advice from others is sometimes helpful, but if you rely on other's suggestions your whole life, you're going to be living a big lie.
Go out in the field and start talking to women. This is the only way to find your own weaknesses and strengths. Watch others and pick out their weaknesses and strengths.
Someone giving you a tip on this board means very little. But if you go out there yourself and find out what you're lacking, not only will this help you out a lot more, but it will also show yourself you're independent. If you can solve your own problems, you can take almost anything life throws at you.