"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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need some dj expertise please really freakin hard situation

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Long story short been with my gf for over a year. I live with her I know might be wrong but its actually not that bad. Anyways weve been fighting like any other couple but still the affection level has gone down between us. Should I just act distant cause I think she is a little bit she might feel smothered. I try to do my own thing sometimes. I guess the question is how can I get the affection I once got? should I just back off for a little? Another thing we argue cause shes doin some drugs recreationally. She stopped doing it for a while. You know she doesnt do it that much but no shes starting to once in a while and I say something to hear i really negative reinforce it but then it seems like shes mad at me for saying something and feels like shes being controlled. I say stuff like your friends arent good people cause they influence you and I cant be with someone that does that stuff anymore. I just think it would be really really hard if we broke up it would probably drive me insane. I have no clue what to do I want to move to vegas buy an investment place work for my company out there and play a lot of poker but shes in grad school and cant leave for atleast 1.5 semesters. I have no freakin clue anymore.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i know this girl who has been with her boyfriend for god knows to long, she recently confesed that she wasnt feeling that spark. Her boyfriend was acting distant and wasnt home very often. Out of the blue she gets a text message that said something like, i love and miss you. She instantly turned giddy because she realized that he was being distant for a reason and it wasnt her.

If you want to be with this girl you need to start figuring out what your next move is going to be.

Otherwise, its what friv said, can you move out. Or better yet, can she move out? What ever the situation is, you might want to have a place of your own already so you can start working on the next girl while she is trying to figure out why you left her.
 
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