Need some DJ analysis of my current situation.

[neonlimited]

Came to learn DJ at 16, never used it till I was 19 (3 months in). Lost virginity to a fellow virgin mate at 17 y/o. She was 15/yo. I'm 19, and shes 17 almost 18 now. I'm in DEEP here I think, let me start with her. I kind of just stopped seeing her after I got bored and she went to a guy for 1 and 1/2 year, they never consistently stayed together for more than a 5 week period, to wrap it up - they now have a pending court date from him pulling a gun on her and threatening to kill her and bury her. Her parents know and it is now completely cut off. She is coming back to me like it was my fault it happened but the thing is I wouldn't mind get back together with her. She is now a 17 yr old HS junior almost 18.

We are now going out to dinner Saturday. We have been flirting online and she is actively willing to have sex with me. She is a slut-type girl.
My GF situation now is, seeing this girl on a 1 time per week basis with benefits, have a double date this friday with 2 new girls me and my friend met last thursday night, and I told my ex we could go out to dinner on Saturday.

 

[KontrollerX]

Major red flags all around.

You should next but you won't so I'll just say keep your eyes open for better prospects and should you find one ditch this girl immediately.

Steady pvssy is not worth your life from her psycho ex boyfriend putting a bullet in the both of you.

Its not worth the risk in my opinion but it is your life so do as you will.

"She is coming back to me like it was my fault it happened"

Yes, you totally made her go and jump on someone else's c0ck after you got bored of her.

You even forced her mouth open so she could swallow all 14 inches of his monster schlong.

In case you didn't realize I am being extremely sarcastic here to prove a point that what she has done and what has happened to her is not your fault in any way shape or form.

She did this to herself and needs to take responsibility for her own life and choices within it.

You can try explaining all of this to her if she tries to place blame on you in other ways but I sense she is too dense ie too trapped in the matrix herself to be open to your logical view of the situation.

Girls like this can be a real pain to deal with which is why I and other brothers here emphasize that guys create a list of red flags ie dealbreakers in a relationship to rule a girl out as a candidate for you to be involved with and illogical blame placing bullsh!t like this would be right at the top of my list.

Maybe its not on yours but I'm just giving this as an example of my own personal red flags list from one DJ to I hope...another.

So good luck man, if you stay with this one you're gonna need it.

 

[Jitterbug]

Slvt with a psycho homicidal ex still around? Dude, why are you even asking us? RUN!