So there's this cute girl in my school who i've been chatting with and kinoing for about 3 weeks. Anyways I feel it's time to make a move and try to hang out with her and see where things go. So the only problem with hanging out with her is - she lives in Brookyln and I live on Staten Island, and for those of you who don't know it's about 1 1/2 hours by bus. So if we hang out, either she has to come all the way over here, or i have to go all the way over there. Besides that, I don't know where to go with her - I'm thinking the mall, but "hey come all the way over here so we can hang out at the mall" seems a bit far fetched. Any advice on this matter would be seriously appreciated, i'm trying to get out of being an afc and I think I have a good chance with this girl.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Need Some Dating Advice - Where to go on a date
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