"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need some date ideas

LostAndConfused

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So took this girl out on a movie date, I'm gonna take her out on another date soon, but I need a new venue. Where do you guys suggest I take this broad? Lets brainstorm for ideas....not to keen on bowling, lol.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Great Cheap Dates said:
Have yourselves a betty crocker date by poring through the best-sounding dessert recipes and choosing one that you might never tackle alone. Grocery shop for the ingredients, then make your outrageous creation from scratch as the evening's entertainment. Be sure to have doilies and glasses of milk on hand.
Cheers
 

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take her to a park,observe the birds,bust her alot and talk about animals and all that good stuff,or a amuse ment park and go on alot of rides example:roller coasters.
 

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Haha I like the second part of krazyboy's response....coffee seems a more "adult" thing to do though, I'm still in high school. If we were in college or something I'd take her out to coffee, but for two teenagers it seems a little too much of a mature setting.
 

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coffee works out well for me and my gf because we're both relatively smart and there's a bookstore attached to a local starbucks. you pop in, get a little frappuchino and go look at fun books. :up:
sports are fun too if you have any remote athletic talent.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Invite her over for some activity. Then read her a bedtime story, people who haven't reached maturity all around the world fall for them, some even on a nightly basis.
 

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Two good ones are ice skating (crazy kino opportunities....plus you're active, which is always a plus) and going to the zoo (weather permitting, of course).
 

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Rock Climbing Gym. Learn to climb a little first (tie in, belay, and such) and then take her.

Local music- coffee shop, bar, w/e. Find some local act at a small venue. Usually it's cheap/free.

Go snowshoeing or cross country skiing. Try downhill skiing or snowboarding.

Sledding at a local hill. Sounds dumb, but isn't. (Try it in the summer using a cube of ice instead of a sled, but be prepared for grass stains and mud.)

Movies

Ice Fishing.

Art Gallery, if she's artsy...Check your local university. They should have tons of them. They also will have band and choir concerts. Percussion ensembles and jazz concerts are usually pretty decent even for non-music lovers.

Go to a play. Pick a comedy show, a night of one-acts is usually a good choice.

Local Sporting Event. HS, College, Pro. W/E.

Swimming at an indoor pool. Preferably one with a sauna and hot tub as well. Outdoor Saunas and hot tubs can be fun in the winter too.

That's all I've got for now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Congrats on the date man! ;)

Do a search, there's plenty of threads like this. Look in the HS Bible and maybe even the DJ Bible. The common theme around here is action dates
 

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Toussaint Boisjolie said:
I've got one that I can almost guarantee she's never had before... It sounds real weird and ghettotastic, but just bear with me here. Just for clarification, its not my idea, I found it online (though I have used it).

Tell her to dress nice, because you're going to eat dinner. Pick her up, etc. In the meantime, however, have a friend set up a small table, two chairs, and a candle in an empty parking lot, along with some cereal and milk. Have a candlelight cereal dinner!

It sounds real dumb and cheesy, but it works!
Hell no dude....not for a first date for sure.
 

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ARrocket said:
Hell no dude....not for a first date for sure.
He deleted his response, but it sounds hilarious like it could work....probably after the fvck-close however.

Say I take her ice skating....how could I work a kiss-close into it? Everyone stresses not to do the kiss close at the end because it builds too much pressure.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You can kiss close while ice skating.....just slow down for a moment....maybe near the edge of the rink....
 
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