"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need some Date Ideas to Revive my Relationship

WORKEROUTER

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Since dating my gf for over 3 months, I feel that we've pretty much exhausted most fun things to do together. I'm going to meet with her tomorrow night, but can't thing of an exciting thing to do with her.

So basically, I need some ideas. I want something new, different, and cool.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blinkwatt

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Go to a sporting event,walk in the park(I love this one),watch a movie,hang out in a sona,pool time(summer is almost here),go shopping together,go to a city 100 miles away(for me that San Fransisco), take a trip to a nice restaurant far away that expensive and shows you have class(I love this one),go to the gym together...(brain fart)...just do whatever is fun. Search google for "great date ideas".
 

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I forgot you could go a concert,that time of the year is upon us.
 

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don't worry too much about it. it ain't gotta be a brand new idea. it's about doing fun-stuff not necessarily new stuff.

go shopping with her the whole day. she'd love you for that. don't do too much, don't try too hard cause if you do, she'll notice.

tell her to dress real nice, do the same and take her to a nice place to eat or to the movies. women love to look pretty and whatever you do is gonna be more fun when both of you are looking good. if she's into animals, take her to the zoo. call a couple people and go bowling.

just don't sit on the couch in your boxers, unshaved, and watch tv. even if you want to catch a dvd together, dress good, take her out first, then come home and watch the movie.
 

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WORKEROUTER said:
Since dating my gf for over 3 months, I feel that we've pretty much exhausted most fun things to do together. I'm going to meet with her tomorrow night, but can't thing of an exciting thing to do with her.

So basically, I need some ideas. I want something new, different, and cool.
Check the local newspaper for community events. You can find some really fun things to do that way. Once our local paper had a Dance Dance Revolution Competition listed in the paper in that section.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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