"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pakwah

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so my ex is finally dating again. though it came out of left field for me as with a child i would still spend time at her place with my boy....seperated for 4 months yet would still cuddle on the couch, still sleep in the same bed...still get naked in front of me, little sex here and there. ask me to cuddle her in bed...then out of no where she hits me with the - im dating some guy - and im like = WTF - that came out of left field! What the hell...why would she do what she did only to get with some other guy. girls responses really welcome
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She used you in her time of lonlines!!!! You cuddle with her in bed but she refused sex with you???? YOU FOOL!!!!!!!! You were used!!!!!! Wake up, THE Matrix has you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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well...you have every right to be like WTFFFFFFFFFFFF cuz it's confusing yes...but as the previous post stated, she was lonely, she might even still be attracted to you emotionally...but not see you as a lover in a relationship anymore for whatever reason.

HOWEVER, she has every right to date other people, after all you aren't together like that anymore.
 

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You're looking for responses from women on the wrong forum . . .

She is your EX right? So why wouldn't you expect her to see other guys . . .

If you have a child, and share custody with her, then you have to interact with her. For your own good though, keep the interaction formal.

There is always a chance you could get back together, and this is the reason you're still seeing her they way you do.

There is a much better chance that you will not get back together though. Save yourself as much heartache as you can. Go cold turkey. Very hard in the short run, but you'll be happier in the long run.

Good Luck,


-E.Nigma
 
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