"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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need some answers....

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Pakwah

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so my ex is finally dating again. though it came out of left field for me as with a child i would still spend time at her place with my boy....seperated for 4 months yet would still cuddle on the couch, still sleep in the same bed...still get naked in front of me, little sex here and there. ask me to cuddle her in bed...then out of no where she hits me with the - im dating some guy - and im like = WTF - that came out of left field! What the hell...why would she do what she did only to get with some other guy. girls responses really welcome
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She used you in her time of lonlines!!!! You cuddle with her in bed but she refused sex with you???? YOU FOOL!!!!!!!! You were used!!!!!! Wake up, THE Matrix has you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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well...you have every right to be like WTFFFFFFFFFFFF cuz it's confusing yes...but as the previous post stated, she was lonely, she might even still be attracted to you emotionally...but not see you as a lover in a relationship anymore for whatever reason.

HOWEVER, she has every right to date other people, after all you aren't together like that anymore.
 
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You're looking for responses from women on the wrong forum . . .

She is your EX right? So why wouldn't you expect her to see other guys . . .

If you have a child, and share custody with her, then you have to interact with her. For your own good though, keep the interaction formal.

There is always a chance you could get back together, and this is the reason you're still seeing her they way you do.

There is a much better chance that you will not get back together though. Save yourself as much heartache as you can. Go cold turkey. Very hard in the short run, but you'll be happier in the long run.

Good Luck,


-E.Nigma
 
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