So Ive been talking to this girl for awhile but I havent really been able to hang out with her except for a few times and shes always doing stuff with her friends and makes it out to be my fault that we dont hang out. It's getting to the point where its really annoying and I dont even want to talk to her because the situation just pisses me off. But she is the one that keeps calling me , I dont want to just keep talking to her on the phone....anyway any suggestions or ideas? should I just drop her and tell her to stop calling me?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
need some advice
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