need some advice...

[Demodulate]

been seeing a younger girl and I just cant figure it out..

she calls me all the time, but rarely wants to hang out. If i dont call her she gets angry I dont call her, but if I try and actually do something with her she is to busy.

she is a very busy girl, but always has time for her girlfriends and family, but rarely has time for me. I dont really mind that, but when I do something without her she gets jealous. its like a double standard. she expects me to sit home and wait for her to call and decide she wants to come over.. I dont do that, and twice now shes called and wanted to come over, and I was out with friends.. and was like sorry. she even called me crying once.. but I hadnt driven and wasnt about to make my friends leave.

shes told me that shes never been treated they way I treat her.. she says im selfish, I told her shes just not use to someone not kissing her ass.

anyway, i think you get the idea..

I dont know what to do..

 

[pancakepalace]

wow!

I think you need to be firm and fair and not fall in a routine where you do kiss her ass.

Make sure you are clear about your needs and wants.

It is not very complicated actually, you set the grounds rules of what you want and what makes you feel comfortable in the relationship. If she can't comply after you explain it to her then why keep this relationship going?

Keep your eyes and ears open for more red flags.

I think if she keeps it up, you should bail.

Seems she is insecure and a little immature.

 

[DJ Hawtness]

Let her get upset. Just ignore her and do your other priorities. When she really cares, she'll confront you about it. This is when you ask her that if she really cares about ya, you both would go on a date right now.

 

[earthshyne]

She's playing you.

Lose her pronto. This will only get worse.

 

[DJ Hawtness]

Girls are complicated. All of them think, or act differently, so that's why we don't know what each of them wants.

This girl just wants to hold on to you, until she finds someone better. You're wasting your time, lose her. =]

 

[libre]

Manipulative type

I agree with the others. Lose her.

She's the manipulative type. She is trying to put the guilt of her bad behavior on you. If you get past this foolish behavior for a time, it will come back in force some time in the future. Be vary wary.

In the very least, if she has a beautifull body, use her, but lose her afterwards.

 

[Demodulate]

well she got the axe....

didnt really talk to her all week.. called her and shes like long time no talk.. I was like is that ok, and shes like I dont even care anymore..

I said "well that problems solved" and hung up...