"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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need some advice

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So I get this girls number couple weeks before new years. Didn't talk her till I saw her friend day after new years, she arranged something up for us to chill. I met her up inside one of her friends place gave her a hug and thats it, didnt talk to her too much and she prolly got tired of waiting for me to make a move and left to the bar with someone else. So, this girl calls me up last week and proposes to chill, called her back last saturday and met up with her but this time I didnt hug her when i met her, she seemed like she wanted me to. She was with her same friend, we went to go eat and than drink a couple pitchers. We than reached her friends house and chilled for couple hours, I still wasnt making no moves on her, she left round 1, than i told her friend I would jet too.

She called me up tonite, wanted to meet up and so something. I told her I had to go catch a bus home and had no money to do anything... So I told her I'd call her tommorow, prolly today by the time you read this. She might think I'm playing hard to get or she might think Im not confident nough to make moves on her. I've heard from her friend and someone else that she likes me. This girls real cute, but she's diggin me, dont know what the ****s wrong with me.

So what I really wanna know, is. Is too late to recover on my weak behaviour? Should I tell her I'm sorry for not giving her much attention? Should I hug her when I meet her and go for a kiss at the end? **** I'm souding pathetic, but Im not used to dating for squat...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I usually got a hard time thinking of stuff to talk about wit her, so if you guys got any good subjects to talk bout, let me know.
 

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talk..
big tip from this site..
open ended questions.

ask questions which get more then a yes/no, then form another question based on her answer.
you are sounding pathetic..
do not apologise for not giving her much attention.. thats really stupid..
get some balls on ya.. put some moves on. if she rejects you, you tried, but it wasn't ment to be, if she accepts you, sweet. IF you don't put moves on, you'll never know.
 

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do me a favour, the next time you see her, grab her, pull her into your arms and kiss her for gods sake.
 
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