"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I get this girls number couple weeks before new years. Didn't talk her till I saw her friend day after new years, she arranged something up for us to chill. I met her up inside one of her friends place gave her a hug and thats it, didnt talk to her too much and she prolly got tired of waiting for me to make a move and left to the bar with someone else. So, this girl calls me up last week and proposes to chill, called her back last saturday and met up with her but this time I didnt hug her when i met her, she seemed like she wanted me to. She was with her same friend, we went to go eat and than drink a couple pitchers. We than reached her friends house and chilled for couple hours, I still wasnt making no moves on her, she left round 1, than i told her friend I would jet too.

She called me up tonite, wanted to meet up and so something. I told her I had to go catch a bus home and had no money to do anything... So I told her I'd call her tommorow, prolly today by the time you read this. She might think I'm playing hard to get or she might think Im not confident nough to make moves on her. I've heard from her friend and someone else that she likes me. This girls real cute, but she's diggin me, dont know what the ****s wrong with me.

So what I really wanna know, is. Is too late to recover on my weak behaviour? Should I tell her I'm sorry for not giving her much attention? Should I hug her when I meet her and go for a kiss at the end? **** I'm souding pathetic, but Im not used to dating for squat...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I usually got a hard time thinking of stuff to talk about wit her, so if you guys got any good subjects to talk bout, let me know.
 
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talk..
big tip from this site..
open ended questions.

ask questions which get more then a yes/no, then form another question based on her answer.
you are sounding pathetic..
do not apologise for not giving her much attention.. thats really stupid..
get some balls on ya.. put some moves on. if she rejects you, you tried, but it wasn't ment to be, if she accepts you, sweet. IF you don't put moves on, you'll never know.
 
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do me a favour, the next time you see her, grab her, pull her into your arms and kiss her for gods sake.
 
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