"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys, new here but read most of the stuff in the Bible especially Pook and Anti-Dumps material, been reading some of the posts here for a while and finally decided to join.

Edited. Shortened, don't like putting up so much info, Girl is into me, lives out of town, started talking to her on facebook, went really well. Agreed to go for drinks next weekend so the next week came and I rang and planned a date for Saturday, shes babysitting until late on Saturday and said she text me if she can make it, Should I change to Friday instead or just see how Saturday works out?, don't like the idea of her letting me know by text, haven't met her in person yet but she's seen me around, I don't want to seem too eager but at the same time I want to meet in person sooner rather than later.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Find out her logistics Friday. If she's open rather move it to Friday.

If she's babysitting till late there's a chance she'll flake and have an excuse.
 

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Anyways asked her about Friday and she's doing some school crap after school and gets picked up afterwards so that's a no, so this weekend is off, asked her about next week and she said she will try come in (don't like that word try), I've been told her parents are somewhat strict and surely she wouldn't make excuses up with someone she's never met face to face and wants to meet.
 

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That's why she makes excuses. She's never met you, so why should she meet you? <- That's chick logic.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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