"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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alright guys...here it is....

i dated this one girl on and off for almost 5 years...very passionate relationship in all aspects.well about a month ago we were broken up at the time and i (in a drunken stuper)asked out one of her friends....next day after realizing what i had done i appologized to the girl and left it at that....well she told my ex...

my ex then proceeded to call me every name in the book...im being treated like i actually ****ed her friend or something when that totally isnt the case.i made a mistake and copped to it with the ex,appologized numerous times,but now her and all her little friends give me the worst dirty looks when i see them.

my issue is im still sprung on my ex...even after all this time and fights and breakups.she now thinks im a discusting pig (as she put it)....what do i do??i see her at work...how do i handle it???....do you think she actually hates me now or is she acting that way to get me to beg her back???

how do i play this???

and help would be greatly appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stop groveling. You two were broke up, all is fair. Besides, you apoligized already. Tell her to accept it, or move on. :trouble: Maybe if she sees you just might move on when you two are "broke up", she will try to work harder to compromise... instead of always "breaking up". Man up! :rockon:
 
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She just called you every name in the book and turned all her friends against you. Why on earth do you want her back?

how do i play this???
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Get over her. Move on.
 
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YOu are single-date who you want. My ex wife doesn't have sh1t to say about who I date. If you aren't broken up, you need to be, why tolerate drauma in your life. Start fresh with a new circle of friends,maybe a new job and never sh1t where you eat again[no coworkers]
 
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matt428carr said:
my ex then proceeded to call me every name in the book...im being treated like i actually ****ed her friend or something when that totally isnt the case.i made a mistake and copped to it with the ex,appologized numerous times,but now her and all her little friends give me the worst dirty looks when i see them.
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Really... I can see why someone would get a bit upset if you started dating one of their friends, but yeah like the others said an ex has no say in who you hit on now. A couple years ago I dumped a girl (1.5 years) for her best friend, yeah it wrecked their friendship and the ex sent me big long abusive texts and emails for a couple weeks, but I just ignored them and had a really good relationship with the next girl. Pity she doesn't have any hot avaiable friends for me to jump to next. :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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